What? I was talking about what I would do if you were robbed. I said I would focus on the crime and the criminal not on what you could have done because that would be completely pointless and unhelpful at that point. If I do focus my attention on you, I would try to be there for you to help you get over it, not tell…

If you got robbed I would first talk about how we can catch the people who robbed you and mitigate the situation. I wouldn't focus on what you could've done because that is completely unhelpful at this point.

If you don't do it- then it won't happen.

Exactly, it was still a pleasant surprise when he did propose. I think it's important to discuss some important details about what you want in life and how that's possible for the two of you to make it happen, before you make a life long commitment to one another.

Putting someone in that situation is also a crappy thing to do. So I don't blame the person for doing a crappy thing by saying yes because they felt uncomfortable because the only reason they had to do that was because another person did a crappy thing to them by putting them in that situation in the first place.

Exactly! You should only do a public proposal if you have already talked about getting married . Well actually you should only propose if you have already talked about getting married. I don't understand how immature people have to be to propose without ever discussing the idea of them getting married before. My…

You didn't get dehydrated and taken to the hospital because a woman stood you up. You were dehydrated and taken to the hospital because you were too dumb to drink water. Did she some how force you to not drink water? No! You could've bought a bottle of water while waiting but you were too dumb to do that.

Even if you were a woman who got stood up and waited two hours for a guy to show up, getting dehydrated still wouldn't have anything to do with it. Even if you were a woman, I would ask the same thing. Why couldn't you get water? Was your date taking place in a desert that you couldn't find water before passing out?…

Well it's not okay when a man to get hit either. In that case we should be encouraging our boys to be more like girl and use less physical aggression than encourage even more physical aggression among boys by making it okay for them to hit girls too.

I'm not talking about Sanford. I'm talking about relationships in general and the once a cheater always a cheater mentality

Yes obviously being married to someone is usually more serious than dating in college but you can be married to the wrong person just as you can be dating the wrong person. They're both relationships and you're doing a disservice to yourself and your partner by staying in one where you no longer feel a connection.…

He met her over spring break and hooked up with her. That's the cheating part. Then continued talking to her when they got back and ended things with me because he wanted to pursue a relationship with her. I never thought he was a terrible person because of this though. He did the right thing by breaking up with me.…

I agree with you on that. I think if someone lies and deceives their partner and/or the other person then that person is likely going to do it again in the next relationship. Having an on going affair and lying to your partner and being sketchy just shows that person's character and I don't know why anyone would want…

I agree that you shouldn't trust someone who's willing to cheat on their significant other with you but not every situation is black and white. If the person is willing to leave their current bf/gf/spouse as soon as they discover the connection they have with the new person they have met then it's not always a…

Technically yea, the guy could say he was also raped because he never said yes either, but when does that ever happen?

You asked a question and I answered it. You wanted to know if owning a TV is just as important as owning naked pictures of yourself. I answered your question by pointing out that neither is a necessity, both are done for your entertainment. I could make the same argument you did and say, Is TV your sole connection to…

You can't judge what other people do or force people to behave a certain way based on how YOU feel about it. Someone could feel that the pain of losing a child would be intolerable for them and much worse than what they would experience by having a kid. So since the loss of losing a kid outweighs whatever they would…

You realize your doctor's records are now connected to the internet and accessible via "the cloud." Are you cool with them being hacked and shared with everyone, too? Do you think your doctor should just not keep records? When your credit info is stolen, is that your fault for making online purchases, or using your…

The thing is if someone has their TV stolen you wouldn't think to tell that person what he/she should've done to protect it. From my experience when there's something stolen people usually talk about the person who stole it/how to find that person /how the person was able to steal it. Never is it never said that you…

Umm you don't have to have a TV. Watching TV isn't so awesome to a lot of people and neither does it connect anyone to the outside world. You watch TV for entertainment and you can also take pictures of yourself for entertainment and you can share those pictures with whomever you want.