Not really the point. Of course she could have gotten another pack (though that’s not necessarily easy), or insisted on condoms, or used female condoms, or just not had sex, etc etc etc. He obviously wasn’t trying to be sneaky, he did it right in front of her. Point is it’s controlling behavior.

“Oh yeah, when you threw you all my birth control pills! That was also presumptuous.”

.Maybe she could have. Maybe she didn’t have the money for the ticket. Maybe she has stockholm syndrome. Maybe doing it in front of other people normalized it for her. She was drunk so any consent she gave was possibly not valid (she doesn’t remember the video.) She was in another country when this happened. Do you…

Why is a 35 year old man making group pregnancy pacts with his friends?

I had glossed over a story of him throwing them away this morning but this is the first time I’m reading the whole convo and WOW, it was way worse than I originally thought and I originally thought it was an appalling, horrid thing to do. WTF?

And that he did it in front of their friends—that’s an abuser’s tactic too. It makes it that much harder to say no when there are other people who’ll probably take the abuser’s side. Fuuuuuck him.

To everyone saying this interview has a number of abusive hallmarks, let me add one more: this is the same couple that decided to totally isolate themselves for some insanely long period after the birth of their child, and he was particularly gung-ho about the idea. Which means we now have isolation, coercion,…

That’s what I keep thinking! Like, does he not know that birth control pills are actually prescribed for a lot of medical conditions totally unrelated to preventing pregnancy?

In the dick.

Maybe she was a little worried about what a controlling psycho would do if denied sex.

Right?! He’s clearly the worst but those friends ... holy crap. Run Nikki run

If Mr. Slackss threw out my birth control pills he’d get thrown out. And possibly punched.

Can you imagine if instead she had said that she lied about taking birth control or poked holes in condoms? Guarantee they wouldn’t have thought it was funny.

What. The. Actual. Fuck.

Now I’m really glad Nina Dobrev got out of her relationship with him. Leave him, Nikki. That is controlling asshole behavior. He’s pretty to look at, but you deserve better.

“What’s so cool”, Ian, you complete jackass, is that you weren’t slaughtered right there and then. Oh, did I say cool? I meant tragic. What a creep. And the friend was in on it? This sure sounds like a stellar group of people.

Somewhere, there is a divorce laeyer tap dancing and screaming “He made a VIDEO”!!! This guy is next to tRump in the horrible person contest.

Reproductive abuse, girl. GTFO now.

RUN GIRL RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN