When you find out, can you let me know? Honestly? I adore this site but they need to come up with a more humane posting system. I am also glad i'm not the only one lamenting the inability to take part.

Oh my god, no kidding. how are NICE folks want to talk and participate supposed to? I just posted a HUGE dialogue that is probably going to get totally ignored. I promise. i am not a troll. Please, for the love of fuck, let me take part. God.

Hello all... not sure if anyone is even going to see this... so i'm going to blindly put it out in the hopes... in the hopes.
So, as per my history, going through a really rough divorce from a man who was verbally and emotionally abusive. About 6 months ago, we had a fight as i'd said, I'd had enough and enough was…

Ugh... last week was terrible ... this weekend not too much better. Someone please tell me that it's going to get better. Going through a divorce after 5 years of emotional abuse and alienation. it. is. terrible. No word of a lie. Hope you all are doing SO much better.

thanks so much for your sweet and caring message. I'm sitting at my desk at work totally and openly weeping. So much has happened this year and it's like she's telling me it's time for both of us to move on.

Here she is before she got really old.

Well... speaking of cats... I have a 21 year old kitty — I've had her since she was freshly weaned. We've been life long buds. I think she is dying. about 4 months ago or more she had a series of strokes and her back legs have been funky. She's stopped grooming and is losing all her fur and it's all clumpy. She's…

Hi there. First of all, just wanted to say that I'm really sorry to read that this is happening to you . It's heartbreaking. But second of all? i want to tell you that you need to separate yourself from this person. He is never going to give you what you need or what you deserve as sad as that sounds and i don't…

Minnisota mild! Lol! Duly noted.

sorry you thought they were hot. I totally did not find them so otherwise I'd have mentioned it. :)

right on!!!! I bought two more bags today!! I am ludicrous. :).

They're not spicy at all! They are so freaking great, GET THEM! If you like ginger, you will be so pleased with these chips. Not kidding. If you get them, let me know what your think, k?

Awww, thanks! She's really a sweetie-heart. :)

A fucking men sister! You said it so well! And for me? That was before cell phones really had text — it was so much harder back then! ; )

Regarding Lay's new flavours? The wasabi/ginger are FUCKING amazing! They really are. The Bacon mac and cheese are meh. The Mango Salsa remain undecided as i really hate ripple chips. So... go and get the wasabi — they were surprisingly great.

I don't mean to sound like a bore but someone is totally going to love you again — i think I can promise you this. I am, sadly, not a great beacon for good love story but... I am a good beacon of it's totally possible to have a great life and be a great person despite the ups and downs that love can bring. Love is…

That's a milkbone in her mouth — sometimes she takes them out for walks with us. She's a weirdo like that. :)

you don't sound jealous to me — I know I'm not but i guess i don't understand this whole 'but it's all about HIM now' and i love love! i love having a partner and some one great to roll around with but god, some ladies make me feel embarassed! Hope that's not too rude.

That there is the difference. I don't really think it's the age thing, it's how you deal. Like I said, I have friends in their late 30s acting like they've never had a guy before. :D

That sucks and i'm sorry but god, try being late 30s early 40s with friends who are freshly divorced and dating like MAD and boy crazy and talking about the sun setting in peoples eyes and then getting dumped and then... doing ti all again. I seriously don't get it. Can't offer any advice but I totally relate to…