Level of force and the usage of tools.

Thank you for saying what I couldn't.

This was a beautiful statement.

I didn't write it here, but for what it's worth, there is an actual narrative that blames women for drinking to much and "letting" themselves be raped...that's what I had in mind.

"But, it's not like rape researchers have not looked into the issue of if men rape simply out of ignorance, or if there's a lack of empathy."

I'll add this—if he was honest-to-god too drunk to think, "Gee, maybe I should ask if she wants to have to beyond making out now", I'll reserve condemning him as a vile monster, as opposed to a drunk dumbass.

I agree with you, but we'll never know because I'm not sure it's been tried. Has it? On a universal scale?

And just for the sake of clarity, in case it wasn't clear—I was referring to the fact that the "don't drink!" exhortation falls on women because it's obviously a drunk slut's fault if she's assaulted.

You'd think by know there'd be a "how not to be a rapist" for dudes. "Step 2 (after "fucking learn what consent is"): Don't drink so much that you're indifferent to 'no', the fear in her eyes, or the fact that she's unconscious, you asshole".

This is the truth (and I have a bit of an insider's view of the surgeons she visited)—there is only so much plastic surgery can do, and it's truly not all made equal. There is a reason customers actually look for doctors of a certain ethnic descent or reputation to perform on them—they want someone that knows how to…

You know what'd be funny?

Maybe I'm wrong—ever since a woman that had lived with a cannibal tribe wrote a piece for "Marie Claire", I've always suspected that's probably as good a fashion/general interest mag as we can have...as good as we can hope for in the wasteland between completely out-of-touch materialist (that I read anyone) fashion…

Serious question—where the hell did she find these people?

There's a problematic logic to selfies—all selfies.

What the fuck is the matter with these kids? Who is teaching them to treat and talk about women like this? 'Cause it can't all be their parents, even if their parents don't know what the fuck is going on and how they behave when they're just with their friends.

She was very ignorant, but the thing is, people don't know how dangerous plastic surgery can be—that it is, in fact, like regular surgery, and needs to be administered by a legitimate surgeon and in a sterile environment. Even then, things can go wrong. I guess because it's "cosmetic" and also because people are…