This person has trauma related to her experiences and this is how it manifests. I’m so sorry you find women looking out for other women “creepy.” You can easily tell if the person you try to converse with is interested or not. It’s not fucking rocket science.

Jesus Fuck. This is your takeaway? You’re going out of your way to be useless?

Wow.

I love horror/thriller movies. They are my favorite genre. But, like many women, I’ve been sexually assaulted. It’s hard to find a good horror movie that does not involve the sexual assault of a woman. I’m not sure why; it’s such a lazy ass trope that is used entirely too often.

Yes, this is an important point—“no” is not an effective command for dogs and should be avoided.

Letting the days go by....

Same as it ever was.

Xena was not gay though, she was bisexual. Can we please acknowledge that?

Generally people with weird family issues introduce them gradually, one step at a time. Think of it as the frog willing to sit in the water as it gets warmer and eventually boils.

This is why you are single — you’re brave enough to ask these kinds of questions.

I bet it's a sunk cost fallacy thing. Once you're engaged there's all this momentum, and the thought of starting all over again must be daunting.

Sunk cost fallacy.

As another perpetual single this is something that I’m dying to know as well.

Perpetual single here - if this is a real story, what exactly does this relationship bring that would make you put up with even 10% of this?

It isn’t the drink carts. It is the flight attendents bumping you every time they walk by, or putting their hands on your seat rest enough to jostle it everytime they walk by. Wakes me up every time I try and sleep in an aisle seat. That being said, an empty middle seat is the DMZ and should always be respected as…

I was similarly rewarded once by selflessly giving up my seat and moving elsewhere so a mother with two hyperactive, dissatisfied children could sit together.

This post is so upbeat and positive that it actually made me smile. All the points!

I used to fly a lot. Hated, *hated* the aisle seat. Always getting bumped and jostled. The window is where it’s at. Get to your seat as early as possible, wait as long as possible to get off. Plus, if everything is lined up about right you get an extra couple inches of shoulder room (ie: if your shoulder is right…

Hahah, no. Flight attendants don’t give a shit about my elbow and shoulder. I prefer the aisle seat for lots of reasons, but I know full well that it’s going to be a hip-check or drink cart ram literally every time they go by. I’m pretty wide, so there’s not much to do about it; I try to keep zen and abide.