I was sexually harassed by a male coworker on Friday and I feel paralyzed about what to do about it. I’ve always tried to speak to my male coworkers first if they act inappropriately and that usually takes care of the situation. This person doesn’t feel like they’ve done anything wrong, used to be a friend, and has a…

As a woman who gets off often and easily from penetrative sex, I find it difficult to relate to women who struggle reaching orgasm. My issues are not their issues, but I think as women we can agree... the orgasm is not everything.

I’m gonna be “that guy” and point out that the Malloren novels were set in the Georgian period rather than the Regency. I only make this distinction because, Deer God, Ms Beverley paints a goddamn portrait when it comes to the fashion in those novels. The entire series is worth a read for that alone if you’re into the…

As a “curvy” chick (honestly, I like to just call myself a fat girl but people take such issue with that) I’m honestly turned off when a guy makes a big deal about being into curvy girls. I like all types of body types on a dude and I’m not making a point to fucking shout it from the rooftops.

I finished this mermaid tail cocoon for my friend’s baby this week. I wish I had blocked the tail because it would have given it a more fanned out look but she loved it regardless. The baby’s nursery is themed for “under the sea” so I figured it was appropriate.

So, I talked last week about splitting with a guy I had been seeing because he gave me the classic “I’m not looking for anything serious” line. That was about two weeks ago. Last Monday he texted me telling me that he wasn’t happy about my decision and I should reconsider, that he wasn’t at a place in his life where…

I don’t know who this person is but from the picture I thought the stalker chick from Orange is The New Black was releasing music now

I sure hope he speaks English

It’s been an... eventful week for me, I guess. I was seeing this guy for about two months and we had dinner on Tuesday evening. The “what are you looking for” talk sort of slithered its way into the conversation at the end of the evening. As it happens, we were not looking for the same thing. He made it clear he…

There’s something bizarre about his lips. I bet it’s an awful thing to behold when he and the president make out.

So as a woman I’m curious if there’s a female equivalent to Tenderman... and what would that be like?

I am officially out of touch. I have no idea who this is.

I’m glad I wasn’t the only person that hated “Shape Of You”... everyone around me was so into it and I’m just baffled that their taste in music is finally far worse than mine.

That’s a really fantastic, simple way of asking... I guess maybe I was also worried about how to present my question as I can get verbose when dealing with stuff like this.

I considered it... I guess I was worried that would come across as needy or make me seem insecure.

So, I gave this guy I’ve liked for years my number. He texted me almost immediately. We’ve been out four times since the beginning of the month... but I honestly have no idea if he even likes me.

I worked at Wal Mart way back in ‘01-’03 as a cashier. The store closed daily at 11:30PM. Cashiers were scheduled until 12:00... except that never happened. They locked the store down, had you clock out and then stay to clean up the store. Just a little illegal, but I was young and stupid and needed the job so I kept…

I hated this song then. I hate this song now.

I don’t have the best relationship with my mother (starting this out with that huge understatement) but I gave her a call today in hopes of getting some direction and encouragement with certain areas of my life, like the desert that has been my love life for several years now. I’m not really sure what mental…