I’m sorry your wife’s rapist decided to rape her. And unfortunately, a 120 pound woman (or a 150 pound woman) is no match for a grown man if he decides to rape her, no matter how much she’s had to drink. We keep telling ourselves that if we didn’t have that last drink, if we didn’t get in his car, if we didn’t go up…

Not preaching. Teaching frat boys that other people are to be respected and not have their bodily autonomy overridden. You know, a more specific version of the golden rule. Having basic empathy and respect for others, including women and/or people they would like to have sex with.

And if they insist on getting intoxicated enough to lose their agency, do they deserve to be raped? If they have a drinking problem, do they deserve to be attacked?

I think you and I have a philosophical disagreement on the nature of why some men rape women.

When men get even half the amount of don’t rape messages that women get about not getting drunk/dressing in a short skirt/walking the street alone/existing in public, then we can talk about it...as for now...

I’m arguing that people should take equal responsibility for oh, I dunno, NOT RAPING PEOPLE.

Well, good girls don’t. They also do not: date, have jobs, move out of their parents’ homes, get an education, decide not to marry and breed, challenge the men in their lives in any way (fathers/husbands/brothers/rapists) - see. All of the world’s problems would be solved if women would just stop expecting so much.…

His next advice - Just don’t be a woman.

“Don’t go to parties where there’s a lot of alcohol.”

Women should also avoid spaces where men are likely to be present, because men may strike at any time, especially if provoked. A man who is about to strike will raise himself into an intimidating posture and then shake the rattle on his tail in order to warn away a woman who he sees as a potential target.

So what?? Women should be under no obligation to give reasons for why they want an abortion. If this garbage passes, women will just lie about the reason anyway and call it a day. It’s completely nonsensical and a waste of time. It’s pure anti-choice propaganda disguised as legislation.

Who leaves Garrett Hedlund for Colin Farrell.

i mean the woman is obviously mentally disturbed BUT she also seems like a witch who knows what is up. If you are going to use black magic ALWAYS use it to curse penises is my motto. Don’t waste black magic on trivial shit. Just penis cursing and waffle making. OMINOUS WAFFLE MAKING.

Yeah, I look at it like my own birthday party. IDGAF what anyone gets me, or if they do at all. I care about seeing people. I highly doubt the moms see you as an avenue to getting a new stroller or a pack of diapers.

So edgy...

I was originally planning something simple and easy like this, but in Savannah. I pictured getting married very informally in one of the squares, without it being private so anyone could just come up and join. Then reception at this ghost-themed pub, then hearse ghost-tours for everyone, with max 30 people, probably…

I mean...I get it. I get both sides of the coin. It can be an expensive pain in the ass obligation to attend weddings for 2nd or 3rd tier friends that may take place in far-flung and expensive locales. More than once my husband and I have opted for the “send a gift and regrets” option for extraneous or ancillary…

My boyfriend and I have talked about getting married, and I want to marry him, but the wedding just seems.... exhausting. I kind of want to elope but I know my mother (and his) would never forgive us, and he wants a traditional tux/dress/nice venue wedding.

You think you’re done, but you never are.

I am currently in the middle of planning a wedding and, by and large, it is not the gigantic struggle that everyone makes it out to be. I say “no” to things I don’t want and pay for the things I do. Revolutionary.