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“We should have listened to the children, Tom! Their ‘gay germs’ hypothesis was right all along - what fools we’ve been!”

Came here for this comment.  The ‘80s called, they want their gay stock photography back.  

Speaking of rainbows, I really wonder why it was necessary to use that picture at the top. I’m gay, and exhibitionists wearing thong-kinis in a parade does not represent my emotional life or identity at all. Especially about a grim and traumatic topic like conversion therapy.

...and the call is coming from inside the house

They were doing this thing at the hospital when I had my baby (who is now a middle schooler omg) where you could choose “rooming in” vs “nursery.” I had completely bought in to all the most natural-seeming attachment-parenting thoughts and ideas when I was pregnant, but when my birthplan didn’t happen (labor failed to

That character is why I hated The King of Queens SO MUCH.

Kevin truly was the worst man.

“I didn’t have much experience of how to organize domesticity.”

....are you trying to say that’s a good thing? Because my comment was that it’s the opposite of that.

Yuk yuk yuk. I’m a terrible dad. I make my wife do all the emotional labor of parenthood.

He also wrote in his most recent book about Laura giving birth to their first child and described the noises she made as “lowing” several times, as in the sounds a cow makes. At one point he went for a run and also tried to get her to chant with him? Yikes, no thanks.

I’m a gay dad, but my partner was the primary caregiver when we became parents, and I remember being freaked out the first time that I had to spend a few hours as a solo parent. My partner just told me to deal with it and went out to dinner with his friends. I got over it and now regularly have lots of one on one time

It’s so common. It took my husband like 10 years and repeated yelling by me to get him to understand that his “compliments” made me want to throw acid on him. I’m not “better” at being a parent, cooking, cleaning or whatever. I’m just doing it because he’s being a garbage human.

I went to his Wikipedia page to find out more about who his wife is and read this:

Preach, sister!

Really? Having it all just means having a career and a family, not having to choose between the two. Men may not have had to wonder that because it is not usually a choice they’ve had to make. I can’t believe I had to spell this out. And 123 upvotes? Seriously? I am getting too old for this shit. P.S. Get off my lawn!

This is it. As a married dude, I don’t get why people, especially fellow women, keep passing judgment on women for their choices in life forcing them to “deviate” from an impossible “all.”

This is exactly right. There were a number of factors that led me to become a stay at home mom-it wasn’t what I dreamed of when I was a kid, but it’s what works for our family. The judgment-and assumption that I’m a stupid housewife-is hands down the worst part. And it’s also bullishit that working moms get judged

Yes! Fuck that noise.