I think the recipient could very easily take a photograph.

Oh good, thank you so much for giving me an update. I’m glad you got to make the best of your time together anyway, and it sounds like you are both great at communication, my god, I’m totally impressed. I get it though. These disappointments can be so hard to move past.  I love that you had it out and then could…

I went to the ob-gyn at 9 weeks and heard the heartbeat, saw the little bean in the pod, and was like, but I could still miscarry, right? And the doctor kind of laughed and said, no, not when they’re already this strong. I still didn’t believe her...I read your replies to the other commenters, and if you do want to…

Oh god that is tough. Maybe let yourself hate him for like, an hour? You get to seethe and resent and get it all out and then you have to get past it. Otherwise it will just fester into something much worse. I’m sorry, this really sucks.

I never stopped worrying that something would go wrong with the baby. And it doesn’t stop when they’re born, unfortunately.

Can’t wait for the diffuse vs. defuse shitshow to begin...

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Also, I’m kind of inspired, I mean, how old is he? To meet and connect with someone who makes you feel like writing these wonderfully heartfelt clumsy corny things is so hard. The fact that he was still married aside, I’m happy for him?! And impressed with anyone who lets themselves be vulnerable—a hearty clap on…

Just a sort of related humidifier question, I have been running one to deal with dry air and sinus problems, but I notice I quickly get mold developing on my windowsills from the condensation build-up overnight. Do you see that happening with yours?

Sounds like you’re already taking positive action to get back on track.  I love what the other poster said, that a setback is not a defeat, and that, since you’ve caught yourself, you’re in a great position to fix what you don’t like.  I think it’s inspiring, thank you.

I was just thinking about getting bangs again, so thanks for the reminder that I’ll hate them.  I just can’t do my hair right or take care of them so they look so dumb.  I’m sure YOURS look better than you think though lol.  We are our own worst critics, always...

It has been such a privilege to watch her grow--thank you for sharing these great pictures and updates.  I follow you on Instagram too, and I just want to say, if you ever feel like things are too hard, please remember that I and many others on here think of you often and send you love.

I love you Harron, but I miss Lindy.

So sorry to hear that you are going through this right now, but also, good for you...

Haha thanks for catching it!  My brain is soggy.

Did they have a prenup? Does Priyonas??? Fascinated by celebrity breakup logistics...

My ex-boyfriend of 7 years wanted to get married, and I didn’t. We broke up and he was married, to an even younger model, within a year of our breakup. And yes, she had been waiting in the wings, shall we say.

And, uh, gay, right? None of my beeswax, except to celebrate another contract with another beard.

I second the lentils, and peanut butter, but don’t forget about hummus. Also eggs, do you eat eggs? Egg salad, an egg cooked in with some white corn grits for breakfast (add cheese if you want). Here’s a bunch of lentil recipes from the New York Times. They have a paywall now for some of their recipes but I think…

Don’t replace your bras every 6 - 8 months. Replace them when they wear out. More expensive bras can last for years. I wash my bras in cold water in a lingerie bag with the rest of the laundry, then hang-dry them. They last. I wash probably once a week? Who am I kidding lol, once every two weeks? I am currently…