The entire article is about how to make your female lover better in bed WITHOUT HER KNOWING.

The tips specifically say, "without her even noticing." Far cry from "communicate with your bedmate so both of you have a good time." I won't even get into the "good girl" vs "bad girl" tropes.

Are you being deliberately obtuse? The whole thesis of this piece is that these improvement measures are meant to be executed without the woman noticing. "(WITHOUT HER EVEN NOTICING)" is right there in the deck.

I find it impossible to believe you have a sex life at all.

I just got ghosted on after a few months! What irks me is that our real life social circle is the same so I am really excited to run into him at the bar and confront him. Ok I lied, I'll just look at him and roll my eyes and be pissed. I mean, we are people with fucking emotions. Is it so hard to be like "yo, I am not…

Part of me wants to ignore you and hope you go away. The greater part of me wants to share that my husband is a feminist and a fantastic lay. It is all about reciprocity, like a healthy relationship... In bed. That's the problem with the article (and your logic), it ignores the fact that it takes two to tango. And, my…

If in your own life your preferred method is actually to TALK to your partners (I'm just going to round up "tell my lovers what they need to improve on" to "talking to your partners," for the sake of generosity and expediency) then for fuck's sake why are you endorsing a collection of tips based entirely on…

Good luck being online again! What sites are you using? I've tried match and a few others but my favorite so far has actually been tinder (which was really surprising)! Also online dating worked out for you once, so at least you know it can lead to a relationship! Lol, and penis pics!!! Why do guys send these? I'm…

No one cares about your boner.

Nope. Wrong. Liberated women are generally enthusiastic about learning more about their bodies and what pleases them, which leads to energetic, experimental, ecstatic sex. Many men, however, don't think sex is anything they should have to work at or learn about, because apparently their Magical Dick Powers just…

maybe all these women who are "crap in bed" are just mirroring the guy they're with....a guy that sucks in bed isn't exactly going to get my peak efforts...great sex takes two....my ex thought I hated sex, but I just hated sex with him....while with others, it's been MUTUALLY more than satisfying....

I'm understanding your elections a bit more now.

Par for the course for middle America. Par for the fucking course.

I spent my formative years on my mother's farm in Southwestern PA, and I still think of it as absolute paradise. The Alleghenies are, to me, the most eerie and hauntingly beautiful region on the East Coast. That being said, and despite my tender, ardent, indulgent love for all things PA, LOOKIT THIS GODDAMN BILLBOARD…

Oh my god this state. The government around here is so strapped for cash and hamstrung by general anti-government sentiment that they can't fulfill even basic functions such as "plow roads when it snows" and "have police available in case a random stray dog starts jumping on kids at public events". So of course,…

Someone is probably going to see this and offer to pay you.

Use of heroin is increasing all over the country because recently severe restrictions have been placed on obtaining prescription painkillers. People get addicted to painkillers because they are in a lot of pain and doctors over-prescribe them until a person is addicted. Now someone who is addicted can't get their…

Ooh, I want to be a Pennsylvania billboard designer. How's this:

So asking her about her life/circumstances and trying to educate himself on WHY she got pregnant so many times is not an option?

There was no immediate MEDICAL reason for her to be sterilized. (As far as we know) It wasn't being asked of her to address any issues having to do with HER immediate health.