That says a lot more about you than anything else… 

Did you read the texts? He’s being controlling and manipulative, and the saddest part is seeing her apologize to him for doing absolutely nothing wrong, which is definitely a pattern you see in emotionally abusivo relationships.

Not if they need to be manipulative and controlling. Those aren’t legitimate needs or requirements, that’s emotional abuse. 

Um , that’s not what boundaries means and if you look at the texts they are chock full of manipulative behaviour and he basically weapon uses therapy speak to control her behavior.

You don’t have to be in a relationship with a famous person to stay in a relationship like this. Lots of times you don’t even notice what he’s doing until later. Other times they have stripped you of your self worth to the point where you think they might be right. There are red flags you don’t notice during the love b…

I'll break up with you if you don't stop doing your job with half the population doesn't sound like a threat to you?

The point is he’s going to be a controlling, habitual boundary-violator with any relationship he's in. He's the problem. He shouldn't be in relationships with women, because he's not a safe person to be around.

Stay away from women, please

He’s using legitimate-sounding language to couch his gross demands in a veneer of respectability. Setting oppressive restrictions on a person’s autonomy and making extreme demands of them isn’t negated, excused or justified just because “My boundaries are -” is put in front of them.

You don’t see how framing this as a “need” is manipulative?

Your ex probably isn’t a public figure like Mr Hill is, though...

I think you’re being very naive here. He couched it by using “healthy” boundary setting language, but what he was asking for was extremely toxic. If you’ve ever encountered someone like that, you know these demands only came after a period of love bombing that got her invested in the relationship, making it hard for…

‘Defining boundaries’ means letting your partner know the things that you won’t do. I.e. “I am uncomfortable with heights, so if you’re looking for a partner who will go rock climbing with you, I’m not the right partner for you.” If your ‘boundaries’ are placing explicit limits on your partner’s behavior (beyond…

Saying that you will leave or do something undesirable if someone else doesn’t change their behaviour isn’t a boundary, its an ultimatum, and ultimatums within relationships are almost always a form of manipulation.

So he needs to be a controlling asshole? That’s not the vibe he was selling when he endlessly posted about her. I think her point here is that he’s the opposite of what he wants the public to see him as. I think we also need to know the difference between boundaries and rules. They’re not the same. 

Nah, it’s typical deranged misogyny. Imagine following a professional surfer’s Instagram, liking a bunch of her surfing pics, then once you start dating her, going back through all of her pics and sending her specific ones to take down because you think they’re too revealing and pretending that she violated your…

She’s a surfer and she’s not allowed to surf with men or post photos in a bathing suit? Are you kidding me? That goes way beyond boundaries. He’s asking her to change who she is so he doesn’t feel insecure.

This doesn’t surprise me. There have been rumors for years that Jonah Hill is a huge asshole.   Especially post weight loss.  You see this kinda thing sometimes. Insecure people assume the world treats them like it dose because of some flaw they have, like being overweight.  Then they “fix” it and find out the world…

He's just taken a shot at meghan Merkel too. You don't have to like her, but that makes more than one woman. Rock has a problem.

He’s not shitting on Trans people, so I count this as a win.