It's a woman. The hair and shirt throw you off. You can tell by the delicate bracelet and lower legs/feet. She has a rather Bohemian-French look.

Nope, I'm gonna go with pants being a good call for a first date for these reasons:

Word.

Got another to add: "The ReplyAll Asshat"

Okay, this just made my day you two. THANK YOU. :-)

Again. It is not about exposed breasts. It is about the PAID objectification of women at a company holiday party for a company where women are not paid for their naked bodies but to be intellectual equals to their male peers.

Something else to consider is that the population of women is decreasing in India due to selective abortion. I hope it doesn't come to men being the only ones in the country left to gang rape before real change happens.

Now that you mention it she definitely does look like a cougar in a teenage body. Rather sad because she was so pretty in her pre-cougar days.

Who wouldn't want to be close to the son of GOD? I know I do!! :-D

I think that's a great idea. I try to be open-minded to posts because you never know the whole story, but this guy sounds like he's not worth the trouble. I hope you find someone great soon who truly respects your boundaries. :-) Good luck!

Why on Earth would anyone EVER even admit "YES" to "Do you feel there are any circumstances in which a person is obligated to have sex with you?"?!?!? Heck with OkCupid, this person should be cross-referenced with suspected rapist lists.

If you did decide on a second date, I wouldn't go anywhere you would be alone with him again. My spidey-sense says this guy has "issues with not respecting your boundaries" written all over him.

I think as women have become more financially independent, we often don't have the time or patience anymore for shallow people trying to get something from us without wanting to invest anything in return. Especially when what they want can end up getting us sick or pregnant when they've already moved onto the next…

Completely agree! :-) Here's another little benefit of your having the right attitude: women are attracted to men with interesting character.

I work in IT and wish there was a way to send this to some of my former colleagues without completely ticking them off.....

No Wand Erection. Just...no.

I know!! I was like "Yeah!! Uh...wait, wha?!?!" BTW: I LOVE the namesake! :)

Yes! Best combination ever!!! Dragon Age: Origins story and awesome companion quests with a great immersive backdrop!?!? I don't care what anyone else wants to play, this would be a complete hit with me.

This is a good point. :) If you don't like it, don't buy it. While good for inspiration or comic relief, it's still absurd with the context of this economy that the asking prices are so high for a lot of nothing.

LOL With this economy?!?! They're dreaming. I could probably sew the #2 one together for $5 from the castoff bin at Joann Fabrics....