You are totally wrong about all this. White men have “all” the space? Try being a white guy walking in a black neighborhood and tell me the same. Try being me, walking home from a bar in college, getting beat up by people I didn’t even seen because I was seemingly just available to be beat up.

This! Men are actually way more likely to face physical violence in their daily lives, and being assaulted (by other men) is one of them.

We are actually more likely to be assaulted than you. Men literally face a magnitude greater chance of physical violence being perpetuated on them than women do. Why is it that women are so myopic?

None of that happens nearly as often as terrorist attacks and honor killings and you know it. It’s entirely disingenous of you to compare the two.

Except we are already doing what you are describing, and guess what? Its mostly white people getting hired.

She is literally saying that she met with an all white sales team and she is going to call that company and say she wants some of them fired.

Except your not asking for space at the table: you are literally asking to remove people from the table.

How is it “critical thinking” when you only come to self serving conclusions?

Hell, 96% of people brought to trial by Federal prosecutors are found guilty. Maybe we should just assume guilt if the prosecutor takes someone to trial.

Other than stats made by feminist organizations, do you have any support for your claims?

What exactly is she going to lose? She is going to get a book deal, do a ton of press with the feminist web, and she is already being praised as a hero on this site and elsewhere. Meanwhile, her former business partner (Dean) is about to lose his reputation and place in the industry and maybe his business.

An accusation that will have no negative consequences for her, beyond having to maybe ignore a bunch of crap on social media. But feminism has turned the idea of “innocent until proven guilty” into a taboo. James could probably sue for libel, but that would just get him more guff in public and hurt him more.

You realize that Stoya is a much bigger name than James Deen, right? Like this isn’t the case of little Miss small-time Stoya vs Big Time Big Shot James Deen.

This is insane. You can’t be serious that someone should entirely own the subjective feelings of others.

Women get praised for shit men do all the time. Just witness the circle jerk that happens whenever a woman is professionally successful here on Jezebel. Sheryl Sanberg was a goddess for a few months. How many crappy books has Jezebel lost their shit for when dudes write the same crap and everyone is like “meh.”

Because a wolf eating you doesn’t care that you are crying. “mens work” of doing ACTUAL STUFF got civilization a hell of a lot farther than sitting around and crying about it, which is what you are calling womens work.

“Emotional work” is not part of fixing it unless you are a child. No one gives a damn how much you cry about something, just that it is fixed. Even women do this, just look at how they treat anyone they buy something from.

Who the hell sends christmas cards anymore?

So you are just a lazy asshole, like your husband? Ok then.

Because you are a fucking loser?