you’re likely going to stay in, order dinner and binge on Netflix until you wake up in a new year, almost certainly asleep before midnight. Alone. That sounds sad. You were in until the “alone” bit, right?

ENHANCE!

Or it’s an attempted defense for every creep making/appearing in child pornography.

Maybe the silver lining is that if people can’t tell the deepfakes apart from an actual leaked tape, there will be either plausible deniability or acceptance for women in leaked sex tapes.

You’re not interesting because you jerked off in front of women for decades. Why does that mean I have to listen to you? Why does that make you interesting. You didn’t get your career ruined by a vindictive creep. You spent 20 years harassing your colleagues and threatening them with retaliation and now I gotta…

The real story here is that girls impending tension alopecia...

Here goes diagnosing a very complex problem over the Internet, but as someone who actually prefers respectful, empathetic, and emotionally available men and yet have run fleeing from guys who describe themselves that way, how do you define those words?

Put another way: one guy I dated described himself as “very…

I’m a gay man but I have male and female friends. One thing I’ve noticed in talking with my guy friends about women is that, in general, men do not respect women.

When I was single, I remember talking politics with some guy I’d met at a party. He tried to call me out for something, and I sternly nailed him back with facts and data. I sincerely thought he was a jerk because of the way he smugly raised his objections to my argument and rolled his eyes. I walked away.

I also have a three strikes your out sort of rule - my therapist tells me it’s one of the reasons I’m high functioning! It’s a good strategy - they do it once and you give them another chance. They do it again and you realize it’s too much effort. That’s healthy!!

I find some books in this area aren’t great reads; the authors somehow make it about them? Which I found weird. But that book really validated me and made me feel like it wasn’t all in my head (ha!). Good luck!!!

This isn’t really so horrifying but it is memorable.

This is a great comment! I’m sorry we have similar histories, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. When I first went no contact, I had a friend hassle the shit out me about it, arguing that her parents also treated her badly but she would never go no contact. She started telling me it was such a white person problem to have,…

Thank you for saying that: 1. gifts should refleft what the other person wants, and not what we think they should want and: 2. not criticizing the decisions others make to go no-contact with their parents/family members.

The number of Yelp reviews that were along the lines of “They said they gave a dollar off a small soda if you mentioned them on Yelp but then they didn’t! Terrible Restaurant that doesn’t respect their customers!” were really breathtaking. Global warming can’t get here soon enough. 

Bye Yelp, I fucking hated you and never liked you. Every time someone said, go check yelp, I would really they them to fuck themselves (like in a nice way as these are my friends).

Totally! The whole “why is it always all about her?” And also the never ending pity party just got so exhausting. My life changing book was “Children of the Self-Absorbed”

Miller feelin’ so fine about his appearance today he’s probably going to celebrate tonight by killing two hookers.

Yay for the NC club! I feel like a walking testament to therapy - I’m in a good place about it but hola competitive so of course I had to trot out one of my shitty mom stories. I’m sure I could have thought of worse. Hilarious that I finally got an account out of the greys and promptly lost the key, thanks mom!

Ooooh I have a BPD parent too! The year my parents got divorced I was 10 and my little bro was 5. All I wanted in life was a boom box...lol. My dad shows up for his visitation with a boom box...for little bro. I got a paperback book, like Sweet Valley High I think. I cried and my dad said that’s what you get for not…