Exactly. If everyone was getting worse like adults say every year—we'd basically be back to grunting and sniffing by now.

I was in a meeting last week where Joe Biden's sex appeal somehow came up. Turned out even the straight men and queer women in the room would all still hit it. Jill Biden's a lucky woman.

My dad still doesn't know what to do with a daughter—my brother and I still joke about. But he's also an academic and very loving so it came out in the perfect way.

It's simply dangerous to identify themselves. You become a target for the rabid anti-choice crowd. A friend of mine is starting their ob-gyn residency and plans to stay coastal for their practice. They plan on providing abortions and have said that it's simply too dangerous for them to practice where they grew up.

Gotcha.

There are people who can only get off with aids like vibrators. It doesn't shame or diminish your orgasm.

I was raised by a single father. And yes, that would have been fine. Sure it's embarrassing — it always is — but laying the foundation from parent to child about honest communication about sexuality is a good thing.

Honestly, I think it would have helped me tremendously to have been given a vibrator in high school. I have always had a high sex drive and figuring out my body would have helped me figure out healhier relationships earlier on.

Women should know that masturbation is relatively normative. Not everyone jerks off, but no one should ever feel embarrassed about it.

There's no reason you can't incorporate your vibrator in sex.

Eh, life is political navigation. Irrelevant.

Here is where the disconnect might be. The Title IX DCL was a big wake up call to higher ed and that was quickly followed up by the Campus SaVE Act. So—they get clumped together but the sexual assault definitions mostly come from SaVE which was an add on to VAWA.

Title IX works in conjunction with VAWA. Campus SaVE, etc. Discrimination and sexualized violence do go hand and hand, of course, but to presume that men aren't part of that conversation isn't. Frankly, men and sexual assualt are about 30 years behind where women are. So, unfortunately rape culture impacts both…

Perfect non response.

Way better than I could say!

Rape isn't discrimination. It is sexualized violence. Title IX protects students against sexualized violence. I really don't give a crap about your personal belief. I interpret the law as I am trained to do to ensure that my students are supported.

As a Title IX investigator I can confirm that cis- and trans- men and women are all protected and that you are quite wrong.

Because Title IX protects students ability to be educated in an environment that doesn't discriminate against their gender.

What you're suggesting is a long term conspiracy in which a couple of thousand institutions are failing to appropriately report Cleary.