Wow, it only took 2 comments into an article about sexually abusive men for someone to, ONCE AGAIN, find the nearest woman and based on no evidence at all, assess that she must have some level of guilt/complacency.

He looks like he hasn’t seen daylight in so long. There’s a part of me that hopes he has a vitamin D deficiency and once corrected, he will be horrified by his actions.

This story is a lie because NO ONE REUSES BRIDESMAID DRESSES. #science

I really believed your story ‘til I got to the bridemaids dress part.

And Jesus sayeth, ‘thou shalt say sorry and thou shalt receive a do-over. If thou shalt fuck up said do-over, no worries, thou shalt again say sorry and thou shalt receive another do-over.’

Ayyyyyy

This made me guffaw. YA BURNT, SORBO!!!

Xena was always the superior show and the superior character.

Its’s ok when you ask someone where they’re from. It’s not ok when you follow up with “no, but where are you from........”

We do not deserve Chrissy.

I did a triple axle a few minutes ago while toasting Totino’s pizza rolls. Where’s my medal?

I can’t believe anyone is calling this human ‘idol,’ regardless of her side eye skills.

Have you heard of the NFL before? They don’t exactly PR good.

People (white women) need to be introspective and take criticism. If someone criticizes you and you decide to stop fighting for their rights because of it, you were never an ally to begin with. Pointing out, dissecting, and criticising white privilege is not a personal attack. Listen, feel your feelings, regroup and…

My ex-husband’s childhood memories came flooding out around around 38-39. He blew the world up around him, including me. It was horrific and brutal. We don’t speak anymore but as we parted, he was entering some intensive therapy so perhaps he’s finally getting to deal with all his demons. I’m still trying to forgive…

Truth. I couldn’t outwardly acknowledge it until I was 48. Part of the culture of masculinity forces you to keep that shit buried deep because being a male victim “means you’re weak” ... even if the abuse happened during childhood.

Yep.

“And it really wasn’t in my case, I would say, ‘til well into my 30s, that I was really able to do heavy lifting on this stuff.”

The biggest lie Americans, especially conservatives, love to tell ourselves is the one about self-determination and self-reliance.