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goddamnitwhatismykinjapassword
goddamnitwhatismykinjapassword
Sep 25
4

Where are the noms? it asks. Why do you not worship me with the ‘nip?

Sep 25
22

And here are the cats who have invaded my yard.

Sep 23
44

Four years sober today. Hard to believe. I drank for so long - and by the end I was drinking maybe 10 shots a day (all between 5 and 10 pm, how the hell did I do that?). I suffered, my relationships suffered. But I’m still here. Hooray. 

Sep 21
8

Crazy, right? It feels like both no time has passed and we're a decade older.

Sep 21
9

Aww! Happy Anniversary to you & Mrs. B. You’ve certainly had a memorable first year, haha. <3

Sep 21
19

Last year we social distanced before it was cool.

Sep 15
5

I agree completely. This afternoon a fried of mine was like you need to sage that shit and I was like excuse me it needs a cleansing fire

Sep 13
6

So far we’re making do with putting our furnace fan on “recirculate” which runs it 35% of the time so at least the air is going through a filter. That seems to help at least a little. 

Sep 11
6

I gather that the MWK is the cylinder in the photo. It contains (if I read this right) a metallic lining that heats up the interior, and an insulating (dielectric?) outer layer that prevents the kind of electrical storm that metal in a MW usually produces. So you put the loaded cylinder into MW, the metal heats up Read more

Sep 9
16

the pic doesn’t quite do it justice, but this is from the Bay Area, about 900 can’t even see the sun. Bits of ash are falling and blowing around

Sep 6
10

Does bacon cheese popcorn sound like an amazing idea? I want to make it, and pop the popcorn in the bacon fat for extra yum. Read more

Sep 6
10

I had pesto once and it tasted like angry Christmas tree. Is there good pesto or do I add this to my "foods to avoid" list?

Sep 6
20

I don’t mean to sound overly negative but I think this is only the beginning of the see sawing behavior. Angry and hates you, needy and loves you, despairing and emotionally manipulative, and repeat. Stay alert, stand strong in spite of your own emotional roller coaster. Do not go back. He’s unstable, and possibly Read more

Sep 6
23

Don’t take this the wrong way; I write from my twice-divorced experience:
1. He needs help that you simply cannot provide
2. Try to keep immaculate records (intense paper trail)
3. I am very glad you did not go; my sense is that you cannot help him
4. Stay safe and be prepared for more sensationalism; contact an attorney

Sep 6
9

One of the high points of the last few months of my life was while I was working at the grocery store during the pandemic. A super stylish woman came up to the cake counter right at the end of my shift and was like, Read more

Sep 3
8

I read your recent posts and didn’t know what to say, so I just starred them so you would know you were being heard. All I can offer are *hugs* if you’d like them, and to tell you that we’re all here for you. Hang in there, AB.

Sep 3
20

Hugs!!! This beyond the pale. I’m sure you are already doing this but make sure any communication with him is via email or text and save screenshots of everything he sends. Paper trails work both ways and yours can protect you.. I guess one good thing about the timing is that your job is probably virtual for now so Read more

Sep 3
17

I’m so sorry, that’s honestly horrifying. Let us know if there’s anything we can do to support. I really don’t like the way “You can’t keep me out” sounds. I think Facebook has an option to log you out of all devices, if you haven’t already. And is everything tied up with your bank, if you have joint accounts or any Read more

Aug 28
19

I am sorry this happening. You mention a psychotic break. I am guessing there are some underlying or recent mental health struggles that make you suspect he is behaving not like his usual rational self.

This is how my ex’s psychosis began. Accusing me of cheating. Going through my call and text history on our online Read more