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*hug* *hug* *hug* hug*

And now I’m sobbing in my office.

That is very true, I just could never get over how much oil is going on in that massage scene :-P

I don’t know why because super bleak generally isn’t my thing but I happened to REALLY love this. My partner and I talked for a while about the bleakness and the aggressive violence as we walked home from the theater and for both of us it was the first time we really pondered 1.) how gross medieval Scotland truly

YOU CAN TOTALLY DO THIS!!!

Right? The thought of them being separate is sort of comforting but them even needing it is the most disturbing thing.

Oh my gosh this is one of the actual videos he showed me when trying to explain their inherent creepiness to me! Now i have double shudders seeing it again! :-P

When I was in Japan this summer I learned from my friend who is a middle school teacher there all about these all-girl groups. He can’t stand how all his students are into them. The messaging behind them is so incredibly disturbing. They are simultaneously marketed as being as pure as fresh-fallen snow as well as

If she had followed up her “this is an empty gesture” statement by saying something about how, if you want to make a real gesture to show support for women how about instead of putting a woman on a ten dollar bill, you make sure she’s making the same ten dollars every man is making I would have been mollified...but

He should probably get himself a binder to fill with them so he something to refer to the next time he’s asked that question. I hear Mitt is gangbusters at putting those together! They could have a bindering party! ;-)

Yes, I completely agree. Especially because this kind of crap can be a MAJOR trigger for people. Someone who has struggled with their own body image issues/eating issues can face real set backs when they are surrounded by people like this who constantly proclaim how “fat” they are when they are indeed perfectly

Maybe find something that you are both interested in? I have been trying to do more things that aren’t just the after work happy hour too. They always start fine but also ALWAYS turn into work talk/griping after a few drinks. For instance I have one coworker who I am going to go to a new yoga class with, and another

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Me at my desk...

OMG I actually shuddered when I saw that - I was a bartender and waitress at a theme park during college and during Kingdom Bound week about half the servers’ tips were these.....I have never seen so many college kids near tears realizing they were going home with almost no tips for one whole week.

I am strictly here to protest that I do not see Washington, DC anywhere on this list. I demand to see my over-consumption of everything and anything Kirkland brand due to our fancy Costco liquor store represented! ;-)

I cannot tell you how sad I was that this wasn’t about Ben Affleck dating Fran Drescher. Their couple name could have been the very short and sweet “Bran” and I would have fan fictioned them calling each other muffin as their little insider wink to each other about their public couples persona.....

Right?! I hope he grows out of it by the time his daughters are old enough to be online!

Sadly no, there are SEVERAL dudes that I went to high school/college with that will pull this. My favorite is they are now getting older so their whiney updates get more and more hilarious as time goes on. One the other day was legit

The only thing that really haunts me about my partner’s ex is....his ex. She recently has finally stopped trying to contact us but my partner had to close all of his social media accounts and get a new email and phone number. For a while she was even getting in touch with members of his extended family and even found