Christ on a cracker, I don't know what you want from me. Everyone LEAVES THE CONVERSATION (better?) feeling good when no one points out differences between different levels and kinds of objectification, or in conversations the differences between other kinds of attitudes, because we can all pretend all objectification…

My mistake. So, he said he gets it, and I accept that he gets it. I didn't know that he knew it before, so I pointed it out. I don't know and can't assume that everyone gets everything all the time. Black women can't assume white women like me get it all the time, because sometimes we don't. I'd rather point this out,…

Ugh. I'm not finger waving, you haven't seen my finger waving yet! He later responded that he thinks it's just something average looking people don't want done or them or to do to someone else. I simply pointed out it's not about attractiveness, which he apparently thought it was by saying "Hey, I wouldn't want…

Ugh, yes. My friend, who has two Coach purses, and a well paying job, went into Coach and asked to look at one of the purses. The woman said, "Oh, well those are very expensive, you know." What? As if she's not aware of that walking into a Coach store? I used to sort of feel sorry for myself, thinking my…

He was attractive, and I'm conventionally attractive in some ways, not to say I'm a knockout, so it's something else to me. When you've had people assess you on your looks your whole life, as women have been, my point is, it doesn't matter if the assessment is good or bad, it just sucks, period. It felt just as…

That sucks, but hey, you could have your looks and sexual appeal be the only thing society thinks you can contribute. I would rather not talk about men in a way that degrades them or seems like something I wouldn't want to be said about me. For example, my friend wanted me to pass around pictures of a guy I was going…

lmao. White Collar, yes. Forgive me, I usually go to bed at this hour working a 5am to 2pm shift.

Good for you. I'm not in a great place right now myself, and I have considered getting a bottle of wine for an after work glass but I'm concerned I might abuse it, since I have a lot of alcoholics in my family and I sometime wonder if my personality is addictive as well. Always best to be on the safe side!

Not that he's comparable to Stalin, but look who else wasn't exactly fugly:

Whoa, the guy from Blue Collar is in this? As if Matthew wasn't enough?

Hellloooo Josephine Baker. Three way with Alexander Hamilton and Tommy Jefferson comes later, because I want to watch them have hate sex. Is that weird? ...Nevermind.

That bum.

Aren't those just called "musicians"?

I should have clarified and not said "deeply" religious. I met one deeply religious turned atheist person and I can understand why that is indeed, a big whoop. Most of the people I've spoken to have come from backgrounds that weren't intensely religious, so I don't know why I said that, and that's why it annoys me. If…

That's one thing that annoys me about it. Often it's brought up randomly. I find it boring to talk about it, frankly. It's been rehashed so many times. On one date: "What religion do you think I am?" Ugh, really? I don't care as long as you aren't obsessive about it and your individual point of view isn't against…

What kind of asshole who doesn't even know an individual come up to someone at a party to tell them their work is trivial? What? I don't understand these kinds of people. If you feel compelled to tell someone else you're *better* than them at a social event you need to do your own introspection. Holy fuck.

Yes, exactly, it's a social construct that serves a good purpose at times and others, not so great purposes, but at the end of the day it's the individual people that determine whether their religion is a tool to dominate and control others or a force that mobilizes to take care of sick or poor people. I could care…

I understand why people are upset about religion and the lives lost in the same of it but sometimes it isn't always the religious text which is bad it's the interpretation of it and the politics and cultural identity surrounding it. I don't think it's the same to compare the two or equate religion with always being…

What is it with some atheists who are fucking obsessed with religion, more than any Christmas-time Catholic or agnostics? I don't get it. I wasn't raised under a religion, so I don't think about it really, I don't ask myself those questions and stopped doing so pretty early on. I don't feel the need to either actively…

This isn't some isolated thing that pols do when they're feeling bad, i.e. say something sexist to a young female reporter. If he said it in this situation, I don't see how it's less likely when being questioned about an unpopular bill. It's still sexist, still wrong.