I’m 100% on board with you here. Yes, it’s appropriate to question the validity of these anonymous accusations, but I think the larger problem is that men are still doing this and women have no system in place (save telling one another about it in secret) to effectively report it. I think these kinds of anonymous…

Bravo. There’s a classic “It’s a trap” situation. If you have emotions - are emotional - then you are a girl and girly and that is fundementally not equal to “us boys” and only girls who reject girliness can be in with us. From the playground onward, you must have masculine taste (I would never read a romance novel or…

I have struggled with expressing this to young women — that the experience of A: Experiencing shocking sexist mistreatment B: Being informed that now you at the crossroads between a naive rube and a savvy member of our (literary, artistic, etc) in-crowd. If you respond to the sexism you experienced as offended and…

I remember seeing a list of manga references somewhere, but I can’t quite remember where. Gamble Fish:

OKcupid worked wonders for me. Getting married in two weeks.