Okay, guy.

I’m not saying it’s not part of it, per se. I don’t know that it is or isn’t, I think ED is a bit of a jump, but I will definitely say porn impacts young peoples’ ideas of what sex should be like - and not in a good way. At least mainstream porn, anyway. If the porn that’s out there was about mutual equality, respect,…

Excellent. I just hope porn like that starts to become mainstream and takes the place of the typical degrade a woman/treat her like a blow-up doll/use her for her body type crap that’s dominating the field now.

Check out sex columnist Violet Blue’s site (tinynibbles dot com). There are a lot more women writing and directing porn than there used to be and they are creating sub-genres based more on mutual pleasure and boundaries, etc. and less on vacant Barbie dolls being objectified and jack-hammered into submission. It…

I agree in part, but also disagree. Porn itself isn’t the problem, it’s the way women are depicted and treated in porn. They’re treated as objects, the sex is only pleasurable for the men, and the women are often degraded and humiliated. If porn was produced in a way that depicted both partners as equals, it wouldn’t…

You're not alone in that.

I have a hot take on this.... I think women (I am one) need to take a stand against pornos. I know I am alone on this, but I think many many many porn videos add to the devaluement of women. I also think they are adding to the growing erectile dysdunction problems in younger and younger men.

I mean, you can raise your child to know that women are people but in today’s society every other person outside of your home will remind him that in fact we are not. With their actions, with their laws, with their assumptions, with their words.

Oh wow, another misogynist woman-hating teenager who wants to murder women en masse because he was rejected by a female. This shit is getting real old. People - stop raising your boys to think that they are *owed* a woman. We are people, we have agency, we are NOT prizes that one can “win” by being nice or because you…

They seriously could do so much better with a different name. I mean, Lactaid. LACK TAID. You might as well just call it “the thin white vaguely-milk-like liquid for butt problems.”

“Def Hef connection” Bwahaha

Generally, there are a lot of very complicated factors including the specifics of the assault, previous life history, how it was handled by the first people disclosed to, pre-existing mental health status, and a whole host of other things that determines, for example, if PTSD will develop. It is not as simple as…

If she was underage, drinking at a party, why isn’t there any liability on the host or home owner, Hef? It’s hardly likely he was “carding” his guests or putting them in under 21 wrist bands

What's with the insultbrag.

Sigh. I guess you don’t understand what a goodbye is. Time to use Adblock. FYI- I’ll see that you responded, but I’ll have no idea what you’re saying.

Of course she’s a victim. She was raped. That makes her a rape victim. That does not, however, give her a right to blame other rape victims.

Oh I’m not saying she’s right. I think she actually is disturbed - as a result of being assaulted. I cannot be angry at her, she is too sad!

I cannot get mad at her for things she says about rape. I cut rape victims that slack. It reminds me of how kidnapping victims develop feelings for their kidnappers. They have suffered severe trauma and it obviously effects all kinds of things mentally.

She is blaming herself. It makes me want to cry.

I want to remind everyone that she is a rape victim. People deal with trauma in different ways..