Agreed.

I guess you’re joking?? But if you are assuming I am fat - you are sadly mistaken! I am actually quite hot by any standard. Lucky me!

Haha. Learn to read maybe? I said I THINK it ADDS to ED problems.

Yeah I know there’s no proof of porn being the culprit. I just think it is. I have no trouble making the leap. It is a logical leap to me. But yeah, def no sci proof. Just personal experience.

Yes. ED in young men. Believe me. Sex is not as good as it was 15 years ago before internet porn.

Erectile dysfunction has been on the increase in younger men - 20s & 30s over the past 10 years. I don’t think its a jump to say now that porn is so readily available on the internet and men are using it more and more to masturbate that they are developing unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex and womens…

I don’t disagree with you. I’m not sure what the answer is. I think it is scary that so many young mens first experience with sex is through porn. Do we need to watch porn with our sons and then talk about it?? I DONT MEAN THAT.

Sure I see that. There are a lot if ways women are devalued. But I don’t understand why women are ok with men watching porn. It pushes unrealistic expectations of womens bodies and sexual encounters. I don’t use porn either, but for a little while I pretended to be ok with it. I don’t know why I did that, but I can…

I have a hot take on this.... I think women (I am one) need to take a stand against pornos. I know I am alone on this, but I think many many many porn videos add to the devaluement of women. I also think they are adding to the growing erectile dysdunction problems in younger and younger men.

Right. No one was using Capital V Victim, though! Just using a regular old world correctly, as it is defined.

Yes! Also, didn’t holly madison say in her book that hef keeps all his girls drugged up all the time??? I think there’s a def hef connection. And a bad one!

I understand the point, but feel you are arguing semantics! Someone stole my credit card info and I did not take offense when the cop said I was a victim of identity theft. Because that’s the word that is used when a crime happens to someone.

Yeah goodbye from me, too. You are a real treat!

Lol

What the actual fuck? She was the victim of a crime. So yeah, actually, being raped makes you a victim.

Nope. Not pity. I think all humans who go through various traumas deserve compassion and understanding all around. I am shocked at the number of women on Jez who are so cold.

Yes! Exactly! Thank you!

Oh I’m not saying she’s right. I think she actually is disturbed - as a result of being assaulted. I cannot be angry at her, she is too sad!

I cannot get mad at her for things she says about rape. I cut rape victims that slack. It reminds me of how kidnapping victims develop feelings for their kidnappers. They have suffered severe trauma and it obviously effects all kinds of things mentally.

??? Not sure??? ETA: sorry I read too fast before. : )