This is relatable to someone like me who has significant (in my less positive moments I use the term “crushing”) student loan debt because I too didn’t have financial help starting out. It also gives me hope that I won’t always be struggling. I wish more people who received that down payment from their parents etc.…

My grandmother lived with us growing up and she was obsessed with Days. She would have to tape record it if she left the house while it was on which rarely ever happened because she typically refused to leave the house when Days was on. It was such a staple of my childhood. I haven’t watched it since I left home, but…

I’m going to be 35 this year and I’m not sure if I want a child, but if I do, it won’t be for another 5 years or so, but I keep thinking that’ll be too late. So thank you, Janet, for giving me hope that I can wait until I’m fucking 50 if I want to.

Unpopular opinion: the first movie wasn’t as bad as everyone said it was.

It’s a lot harder than I thought it would be, which begs the question, WHY? It shouldn’t be hard to stay single; I need to explore why I feel like I need a relationship to focus on so often. It’s like I don’t even know what to do with myself if I’m not falling in/out of love with someone.

I third on the Paula’s Choice! It has helped my cystic acne like nothing else.

I really miss Millihelen.

Debate is punished. You’re a bad Christian if you question anything.

It is!

Santa Barbara or San Luis Obispo! I’m a CA native but have lived in the Seattle area for 20 years now. If I ever move back (which isn’t likely, I love it here) it would be to SB or SLO!

My dream cat!

My friend has a black German Shepherd! I don’t think he’s had any behavioral issues with him; he’s a good dog. They don’t tend to live very long; his is 8 and starting to show his age. Black hair EVERYWHERE, though. Like, EVERYWHERE. I suggest doing a better job than my friend of grooming.

Oh man, that’s so me. Except this time I’m actually doing it! I said no dating, even casually, for AT LEAST 6 months, but I’m shooting for longer. I’m almost a month in, which I swear to god is a record; and the universe tested me literally the day after I made that proclamation because two guys I dated earlier in…

Can I ask what you say to her to make it clear? Out of curiosity; like, how do you engage?

I genuinely appreciate this post.

I have to watch this tonight. I love Bokeem Woodbine! Why isn’t he in more things?!

I loooooooved A Single Man, but I’m all about movies creating a certain atmosphere. The same reason I always enjoy a Terrence Malick flick.

I LIVE for Melbourne! They are endlessly entertaining. Lydia and Pettifleur are fucking nuts. Chyka isn’t coming back next season, and that makes me sad.

What do we think of the woman who does that show The Haunting Of (insert celebrity name here) . . . Kim Russo! I’m obsessed with her show. I think I believe she’s legit. At least I haven’t read anything to suggest otherwise. But I love ghosts and the paranormal, and I typically choose to suspend disbelief.

Is it as good as Melbourne? I loooooooooove Melbourne. Where can I find the Auckland show?