But whole milk is better in coffee than that skim water.

I was surprised not to see “and the party is someone your partner knows” on the list. To me, it’s way worse to be deceived by 2 people than 1, and the odds are way higher you’ll get caught if you cheated on your wife with a woman she knows. I think some people would be okay with not knowing if it was a one-night-stand…

PS you can read the study in full here http://www.psychologicalscience.org/index.php/publ…

War breaks all of my underwires.

With all due respect to everyone, an effort to feed starving children in this country is way more “overdue.”

Curious... where are the stories about the behavior endured by the Chinese and Japanese (oops! Not black! Nobody cares!)? What about the gang wars with the Irish (oops! They’re white so nobody really cares)?

Yes, but his first choice would be Diana Ross.

He was the predecessor to denying ones blackness. He wouldn’t even adopt any black kids, and seemingly went out of his way to make sure his brood were pretty much white. I don’t really believe he he had vitiligo, I just think the darkest parts on him when he died were the parts where you can’t put that toxic chemical…

Living Single was my jam (and I’m a guy). I was born in 85 and I grew up with a lot of great tv shows with black casts/cast members. I don’t see many today.

if you don’t slap the first guy you find off the street in an electric chair right away, you clearly don’t care about the victim!!

Now THAT’S a euphemism!

“I could also be into getting rimmed...”
If you follow this up with “Nice new rimming seat” (which I presume is just a chair with a hole in the center, yes?...I just gewgaled it. It’s a toilet seat with legs...huh) you’ve thrown all subtlety out the window. Don’t be coy with us here. We have no need for your ‘could’s’,…

“Thinking it would be great to meet someone to hole up with for the weekend...”

Yeah probably, but is that any better? I mean, either she thinks joke stealing = rape, or she thinks that Cosby joke was funny enough to tweet (either way, she’s the worst)

Amy Schumer stole one of MY jokes, and it was WORSE THAN THE HOLOCAUST.

When my daughter was in 4th grade reading Harry Potter she asked me why girls read “boy books” and “girl books” but boys only read “boy books.” It starts so young.

Not for everyone i suppose. But, for some reason i keep getting blindfolded and told to shut up. LOL. Again, all in good fun between consenting adults.

Hmmmm....where does “maintenance sex” fall under “enthusiastic consent”?

BUT, it’s not going to work to teach men that only enthusiastic consent is the green-light unless we also teach women to give enthusiastic consent - hence the author’s quote below that shows why there are grey areas and misunderstandings:

seems that what’s being discussed in this comment is an involuntary response, and it seems that what the author is describing is a voluntary strategy. For some reason those of us making this distinction still have unapproved comments, typical.