These dudes do NOT have homies. They do not have friends with wives. They do not have friends with girlfriends. They do not have friends who talk to their own sisters or mothers (except to ask for caretaking). The easiest way to get this way is to be socially isolated. And the easiest way to be socially isolated is to…

Who would want to be friends with him, though? :/

Dudes call your fucking homies out when they act like this. Make him look like the asshole that he is. When one of my girls is being a horrible bitch to someone I let her know full stop. I’ll be like, “look you have no right to treat anyone like that. Now go eat some pizza and take a bath or something and get fucking…

This story gives me chills. It’s such a textbook example of a guy who can’t take no for an answer (much less take a hint, as so many women, unfortunately, prefer to give in the interest of “niceness”). So many of my girlfriends (and I) have horror stories about men like this. They are really scary. If dude reacted…

His whole spiel how he has “done more for the cause of advancing women’s rights” immediately set me on edge. You knew what was coming after that.

It's scary he doesn't realize that he's being scary and he should stop. Good metaphor. Guys like him just keep coming and looking for some weakness.

You hit the nail on the head. Only years later did I realize how scary my first boyfriend was after we broke up, because he was a skinny nerdy kid into comics and Keanu Reeves movies. That shit comes in ALL forms

Dudes like this unnerve the hell out of me. It’s like a wall of “trying” that gets increasingly mean and frantic. They are like the velociraptors in the first Jurassic Park, just jumping on the electric fence, trying to find a weak spot. And they NEVER admit that they are the creepy, stalker assholes that they are. In…

This entitled housewife looks back at her impressionable child and calmly says “She is yelling because that girl deserves it, the service is terrible every time we come here.” And then she looked me straight in the eyes.

Yeah, you don’t wanna go Full Monty.

I will NOT be orphan-kitty-pelt-suit shamed by you or ANYONE

I heartily endorse big-hipped women wearing bodycon dresses, in that the last time I wore a bodycon dress, literally every comment from my friends was ‘OMG YOUR CURVES’. Aw yeah. Also, I heartily endorse everyone wearing whatever the fuck they want at all times (unless you are wearing a pelt made from the skins of…

No, that is bullshit. Lena Dunham is an actual, real and present danger to ongoing feminist discussion. She doesn’t seem to understand complexity, she is avowedly privileged and pays nothing but passing consideration to the fact that this might hinder her understanding of people in other circumstances and frankly I…

I used to read this blog called Confessions of a College Call Girl where it really was her choice. She was already having a lot of sex with random guys she met at parties, etc so why not get paid. she would chat with them online to get to know them a bit and then they would do thier thing together. she usually enjoyed…

Lena Dunham has spent way too much of her life being asked what she feels about stuff and not enough time being asked what she actually THINKS about stuff. Someone needs to teach this woman how to work through an argument and stop treating the world like her own personal therapy session.

Easy answers:

Also, what is worse? A woman being trafficked or a woman being trafficked and then also punished for what she was forced to do by her traffickers? Surely giving sex workers more legal rights helps all sex workers, including victims of trafficking?

Exactly why is this a threat to anti trafficking campaigns? they can’t think that only women who’ve been trafficked engage in sex work.

It’s is about time people start listening to sex workers. It makes no sense to prosecute them in any capacity, for the sake of “protecting” them, because it doesn’t. Also, Shut up Lena and Ann, and listen to these women in the thick of it for once, instead of hiding behind your holier-than-thou, rich, white chick…

Here’s a hot take for dudes all over the globe (and laydiezz, but I never have this problem w them)