I suppose you have a discussion and find out what her deal is. The whole suffering self-sacrificial role will not workout in your favor.

I read in an interview somewhere that David Schwimmer was always trying to talk the producers of Friends into hiring PoC for extra parts or the love interest roles. It’s why all of the (very few) PoC guest stars have story arcs with Ross!

Or if you can somehow find the money and are okay with the house being a little dirty from time to time, hire that shit out (we decided to stop eating out so we could find the money to have a guy come clean the house every third week or so). We still split things like cooking and dishes, but not having to clean…

Divide all the maintenance evenly - the cooking chores, the shopping chores, the cleaning chores, the laundry chores, the outside chores (snow removal, cutting the grass, etc), the vehicle chores, the bill paying.

Another +1 for same-sex relationships. There’s simply no tradition of gender-roles to fall back on when it comes to this in our household.

Because it’s humiliating. I don’t feel a need to publicly point a finger at my rapist but if he ever was to come into some sort of power or was being deemed a saint, I might start telling my story.

When my wine glass is empty I get to hold it in front of my husband’s face and make a very specific pathetic choking noise like I’m dying of thirst. In the 10 years we’ve been together he’s never not found it incredibly charming, chuckled heartily, and then gone to get me more wine.

Let’s share the love, girl. My dude goes out and get’s my wine FOR me and shares his big socks when mine are dirty.

THAT WE KNOW OF

At least he’s not drawing on everything with poop.

Oh god yes. But they get personal assistants - babysitters.

The YMCA I used in Augusta, GA was $70 a month for the family. That sounded like too much at first, but the other gyms in the area charged child care fees and class fees. Also, our Y had a fully-fledged CrossFit box, included in the cost. Other CrossFit boxes in the area charged upwards of $125 a month, and I actually…

I love that Jamie Dornan is needlepointing. Mostly “Bless this House” pillows, you think?

Christian Bale “lectures young fans about being rude and intrusive” to the point that “tears stream down their faces.”

Matthew McConaughey “gets turned on by food.”

Christian Bale “lectures young fans about being rude and intrusive” to the point that “tears stream down their faces.”

Wait, isn’t this everyone’s normal Friday nite?

Mohamed’s 30,000 square-foot mansion in Bel Air might destroy the cliff it’s being built on,