This is wise. Forgiveness is an ongoing process rather than an absolute one time epiphany that fixes things. It’s taken my whole adult life to learn this, hell I’m still learning it.

I was so happy to see that the advise was don’t tell her.  If you tell your wife you will transfer the emotional pain and burden of the secret to her, you will feel better, she will feel worse.  And it is unlikely your relationship will recover. This your pain and shame to endure. 

Sometimes you just have to stand there in your wrongness and be wrong. That might mean telling the truth and dealing with the consequences, or it might mean keeping it to yourself and dealing with that emotional burden. Only you can determine which option is the better one based on the specifics of your relationship…

Came down here JUST for that... on my life, this appears to be the hardest lesson of that early adulthood transition - some things don’t get re-dos.  Some decisions you make are fucking permanent and there is no scripted resolution where everyone lives happily ever after and things work out.  Reasons why it’s all the…

This crisis you’ve been suppressing isn’t meant to be resolved, it’s meant to be endured.

She called Wallis “cocky.” The Onion is the one who made the “cunt” joke, then deleted it.

Haha I will never get tired of people thinking Onion headlines are real life.

God DAMN I am tired of this “Marie Kondo is selling out!” whining. Kondo is not anti-stuff. She does not object to personal possessions. She has nothing against capitalism or the acquisition of material goods. At all.

That is true, but I think it’s important to add that Chrissy wasn’t demanding or even looking for an apology.

I loved these books and thought I was going to hate the movie - but I agree - I thought Tom was actually pretty good. Maybe because it felt like he was really just playing himself - a slightly androgynous diva that won’t accept aging or anyone telling him no. And, agree on everyone else - Brad was terrible(between…

So... the news reports of people dying around the globe of COVID are a liberal conspiracy, but the (checks notes) Internet postings about “millions” starving to death are believable?

Agreed.  this is the kind of content i need in these troubled times.  

Garrett, you MUST elaborate on your Smith Jerrod position! Please?  I need this kind of distraction.

I totally married a Harry and it rules. 

I could marry Steve or Harry and be happy for the rest of my life

Toatally.  If this quote was from People I’d buy it, but it’s coming from a UK source, which they have cut off ages ago.

I’d also put money on the context being all wrong. If anybody were to say right now they couldn’t have imagined their life being turned upside down and that they are pretty lonely right now, nobody…

I don’t recall seeing many stories about how lonely it must’ve been for Meghan to leave her family (the non-trashy ones) and friends on this continent to move to London and get trashed by the English press.

Totally agree. It’s criminally underrated and Egerton was magnetic in the role. I had no idea going in that it was going to be a musical, but after watching them go that route with such success I’m surprised more musical biopics haven’t done something similar. It’s much more fun than the usual formula of a dry…

When we think about asshole geniuses and whether or not they should continue making their art, we rarely consider how much better art could be if fewer assholes were allowed to make it.

I loved Rocketman, thought it should be a musical (it would be perfect for Broadway) and was devastated it was virtually ignored by the Oscars (I’m sorry, but Rami Malek’s performance as Mercury was the worst of his career by far; whereas Taron Egerton is somehow a revelation with every single performance he gives and…