So it sounds like you’d go on stage just to punch the guy?

Yes, you are entirely correct. I shouldn’t have commented on her statement. It was uncalled for, particularly given the context of the article.

I wasn’t trying to demean her. I say that same thing to men all the time. I should have thought about the context here before I wrote that.

Take your kink to someone you pay to deal with it.

Of course it has nothing to do with Drake. I wasn’t talking about Drake.  I was talking about punching.

I wasn’t trying to derail anything I never thought internet comments sections had rails in the first place.

Well the fact that I happen to be aware of that kink because I have it didn’t seem to be relevant at all. If she had said “I will tie you up and slowly cut you” I still would have said, “there are people who like that” even though I don’t have that kink.

Both, the original comment was supposed to be funny.  and also I meant what I was saying.  

OK, thank you that was a very thoughtful response.

Though it just occurred to me that I have made this same comment dozens of times but to men.

uuhhhh.... yes, probably.

No I’m not. The two actions aren’t connected. touching someone without their consent is sexual assault.

Your kink is your kink, and that’s fine and I have no issue with it. But if you ever - EVER - map your kink onto someone else’s action without their consent it will always, 100% of the time, be sexual abuse. Never, EVER, forget that.

Thank you. That is a very well stated explanation of what the problem with my comment was.

Well, I don’t know whether most men do or do not like being punched in the face & nuts.

Go fuck yourself.

Uh... probably not but I can talk about something else somewhere else.

go fuck yourself dude

Well until she made that comment, it had never occurred to me that consent was a component of commenting on the internet.

You’re a real asshole coming in here with that shit, you know that?