I totally get what you're saying about being a woman in the kitchen because I am one. I just don't get this story about him being an ass in the kitchen because my best friend worked at a restaurant as a sous chef and he was a visiting chef. He treated her awesome. Maybe she was just an exception. Maybe it was because…

Aww, this is such sad news! That was a must every time I went there and even though I don't have any reason to go to Iowa city anymore it breaks my heart for the veggies in that town!

Exactly. I work in a kitchen (not McDonalds or any fast food, thank god!) and I was curious so I bought a little thermometer to stick on the cooler door. When the grill, ovens, fryer, pizza oven, and other things are on it is 100 degrees in there. I come in with dry hair and leave with wet hair. It is disgusting. And…

I was born in Iowa, but haven't been there in years. It's a good place—not like a lot of midwestern places like here in MO. My cousin used to live in Iowa City, and I would visit her when I was in my early 20's to see bands when they came through. I really like it there. I don't know if you're vegetarian, but I guess…

Anyone who says you've had a certain amount of male privilege as a trans woman is obviously really reaching. I don't know why they'd even say it. Even before your post, I would have assumed pretty much similar things to what you wrote. That you never actually feel male, therefore you never quite act male and don't…

Miralax is amazing. If that doesn't work, and you can't poop for lots and lots of days you might need to go to the doctor.

I totally get what you're saying about the greedy thing. Even though I'm married those feelings haven't gone away. For me, it just feels wrong to go out with more than one person. Personally, I just wouldn't feel comfortable dating one person on Monday, and someone else on Thursday. I can only focus on one person.…

I could never be the type of person who could deal with dating people who are dating other people, even if we are not exclusive. If I'm dating someone, I'm dating that person and just that person. Period. I will never understand this thing where people date multiple people at once. But I'm very loyal and at the same…

I was a virgin until I was 25 and even then I look back and even though I'm glad I got some experience, the dude was just eh. He was totally in love with me and I was just wanting to get some. I hadn't even really had much experience before that. At least not below the belt.

nooooooo

That's how she is too. Either she's making trouble or she's zonked out. There's hardly any inbetween. My husband yells at her "When are you going to grow up?" but she's 8 so I think if that was going to happen it already would have.

She whines and bites me when I cut her nails. But she's getting better.

Oh don't be fooled! She runs the house! She is a bully to the other cats and plays harder than they want. She jumps on them, gets too close to them so they move and she can sit where they are sitting. She is 50% devil/50% angel.

She's always on her back showing off that belly! Somehow I let her get into the habit of getting into bed at night and insisting a tummy rub. Sometimes I just pretend I'm asleep and after meowing a few times and rubbing her face on my hands, she'll go away.

She also lays like this all the time

My cat loves it when you pull her tail and drag her across the floor. She meows really loudly, which freaks people out when they first watch us do it, but then she comes right back and waves that tail right up at you because she wants it again. She's so weird.

Oh lordy, I didn't even read the reviews!

Ugh! I bought some stupid gel "pens for her" once, and they were the crappiest pens ever. One of them leaked all over the place. I was so stupid, "ooh, it's a pink pen!"

Oh yeah, you totally are. Let me look around and see how abused my cats are... One of them is laying on the couch next to her daddy sleeping, one is on an ottoman just chilling, and the third one is on the floor batting at some toy mouse. So abused!!! They love when the windows are open, because they get to look…

One of my cats is fuzzy and totally laid back and I just did a test and she is totally perfect for this. I just don't know if I can get my husband to take me seriously enough to take the picture.