My narcissistic mother in law still wouldn't "get"this. She would find some way to be like OH YOU WANT TO BASK IN MY BITTERNESS WELL WHO IS BITTER NOW YOU ARE HAHA
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Except so much of the abuse endured from a narcissist is that your voice is stomped out. You are silenced repeatedly, because their word is always the most important. It is healing and therapeutic to reclaim your voice, and at first, it can be raw and abrasive. Because of course it is— they haven't had the privilege…
Perhaps they'll even blame their relationship problems on her.
No, that's not a good way of handling it. That just spreads more pus around. And no doubt her inlaws are now concerned about who's joining their family.
If you're a grownup (and if you're getting married, you should be one of these) and you don't want to invite people to your function, don't. That's it. Full stop. If…
There's nothing wrong with her body, that's how a 47 year old body looks, if you're lucky and have very, very good genes. Why people should continue the myth that beautiful = young I don't know. Because as a species our window of youth is relatively small, and we'll be old far longer than young. That's a long time to…
My man and I recently delved into pegging. We had done plenty of butt play with his glass dildo, but a few weeks ago, I invested in a harness and pretty purple strap-on. I pegged him, he loved it. But the next day? Holy christ! My back! My core! So sore. I had no idea I was getting such a good workout.
I love this show so goddamned much, I can't even say. Every aspect of this was handled beautifully and somehow managed to be both very relatable and hilariously absurd. I really did not expect the way the story went, especially not that (SPOILER ALERT) Abbi and Jeremy would be over so quickly. But again, so accurate,…
"Bitch, you wouldn't be calling me if you didn't know."
This is sad. Omg...
That is a really good point and honestly as someone who is still figuring out (both academically and in the daily world sense) the complexities of gender relations I think this is a good conversation to have. Just because it is something I personally want to see, doesn't mean that hammering into someone is the…
OK, but that works both ways. Just because she has a disagrees with him doesn't mean she has to hammer him, you know what I mean? The idea that you are a weak woman because you're not screaming about something like a man did doesn't sit well with me either. This is very much who Michelle Williams is—-she's a very…
I find it so interesting and infuriating the differences between how women and men have handled calling Huckabee (Huckbey? I'll show myself out) out. Compared to Jon Stewart who rightfully hammered into him, Williams couched her comments by saying she respects him (um, why?) and other qualifiers. I see this difference…
I can say that I have met men who are really good at sex and men who are not really good at sex. I would say that Kate is on the money for getting a "good at sex" rating out of dudes.
All good dancers read the labels.
The piece-of-shit old people couple is bad enough, but WTF 2nd-manager-dude??
In the restaurant that I work at ordering off the menu is annoying because as I server I cannot put an off menu order into the system. Every item on the menu corresponds with a button on my till. All of the acceptable substitutions also have their own buttons on the till (ex: sub salad for fries or no sauce). When a…
Here are a few reasons why restaurants don't want people brown-bagging it:
I went to Miss Porter's School for girls (aka Jackie Kennedy's high school). My newsfeed was clogged with my classmates' disapproval of the Lilly/Target collaboration...when I tried to call them out on how they were just upset poor people would be wearing Lilly they pretty much all talked down to me by trying to…
His description of pussies made me think of the "bags made of sand" boobs quote from 40 year old virgin.