Omg they SO should have gone with “Gimme Shore.” That's perfect

Wow, I can’t believe the rude response you got. That you apologized so sincerely is impressive. For the record, I didn’t think you were making it about yourself AT ALL, and I thought your personal experience/call for compassion balanced an otherwise judgmental (not to mention uninformed) conversation.

What episode is that from?

Yesssss I did the same thing! Then I counted again because I couldn’t believe that anyone else would be that excited about Alex Guarnaschelli. I love her. I wonder if she talks about Geoffrey Zakarian in her standup.

He’s fine! Taylor and Tom are going over and he’s making fajitas.

I do think it was rude, absolutely, and I wouldn’t deny that. I just also think there’s a huge gulf between “rude” and “hateful,” and to me, for many reasons (including intent, language, and even venue), Kanye’s behavior in this instance doesn’t begin to cross it. So our difference is one of semantics, and I respect…

I know, right? “Hateful.” That’s absurd. It was ONE speech, and at the MTV Video Music Awards—a fun, meaningless, drunken shitshow. Taylor Swift had already won multiple, major industry awards; it’s not like he ruined the first, only, or most special moment she’d ever had. He talked for like ten seconds—said literally…

Don’t forget “She just wants publicity.”

Baeby?

Do you have a link to a media report about that show? I haven't heard that gossip!

It’s absurd. Adults are talking about how they’ve lost respect for a man they’ve never met and gleefully questioning a woman’s sexuality. I saw the word “sordid” used to describe Tom Hiddleston’s behavior! Kissing your girlfriend and wearing a shirt with her initials is sordid, now, apparently.

I don’t dislike them, but I also don’t get the fawning. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

You sound like a wonderful, lovely person. The cookies for breakfast, dancing to Bjork, teaching yourself languages—I love all this so much. And I’m so sorry for what your husband put you through. My heart swells at how much you’re doing to care for yourself and your daughters. I hope you have a great rest of the…

And good thoughts to you (and your family), bachelorpod. Here’s to thoughtful and civil internet discussions. :)

I saw him speak a couple of times in the last ten years, and you’re so right—it is a great loss. He was a wonderful, beautiful, eloquent person.

I noticed you starred my comment, and I wanted to say thanks and to apologize for flying off the handle like that. I feel passionately about the stigma around mental health care, but yelling at someone to stop is not productive. Thanks for taking the time to read it even though I approached you so rudely.

Oh no, I’m sorry, I was wrong! It was actually a movie—a sequel called Center Stage: On Pointe—and it premiered last weekend. So don’t file for divorce, but maybe do trick your husband into having a movie night? :)

As someone who works in the mental health field, I hear you. It's appalling. I'm sorry you have to deal with shit like the original post in this thread.

I think he was almost too baffled to hate it— “almost” being the operative word there. Our relationship survived that viewing but I’m sure it’ll be tested further once the Lifetime original series based on it premieres.

This is a horrible thing to say and you should be ashamed of yourself. You’re contributing to the stigma around mental health disorders in general and BPD specifically, and you’re dehumanizing the human beings who suffer from the latter. In fact, BPD is manageable, and especially in recent years, treatment and…