Perhaps they confused sex therapist with of sex surrogates? They provide a certain kind of sex therapy but are also sex workers.

I just wouldn't see a graphic picture of strangers (especially if it's meant to be funny and not sexual) as anywhere near as obnoxious as an unsolicited dick pic (I am a gal who likes dick pics but not surprise ones!) Especially at his age, I really think they (youths) grew up seeing so much more graphic shit than I…

I liked Very Bad Things when it came out because it was in such poor taste (and I was a teenager so it seemed oh so naughty) but I'm pretty sure it'd squick me out now. It's interesting that now people are having a legitimate conversation about the treatment of sex workers as comedic props or even just the collateral…

Eh, I'm starting to see friends get divorced and some do seem happier. I think at first it can be very bumpy because money is hard, child arrangements are hard, trying to date is hard. But I do think that stuff can balance out and lead to happiness eventually (whereas without counselling, your situation does not…

MAYBE if I didn't have a full time job, my husband didn't have a full time job, and we had someone to do all cleaning/cooking/shopping/bill paying/tv watching for us, we could do it 6 times a week! We're averaging once a week and we don't even have kids! (Also been together for a grip, about 8 years.)

Exactly, I think Toasterlad was just being a bit too pedantic in his reading of the comment. I mean, the very phrase "make love not porn" makes me roll my eyes so I knew her phrasing wasn't going to be exactly my ideal and a little too frou frou. She said a big turnon should be your partner's pleasure (which I took to…

That reminds me of when I first started dating my husband and how somehow my best friend always called me right as he and I were about to do it and my ring tone for her was Werewolf Bar Mitzvah from 30 Rock so it really set the mood!

I think that we would benefit (we being feminists and forward thinkers about gender) if we let masculine and feminine mean essentially what they do (based on the hormonal differences associated with them) but that they are both present in everyone, one is not better than the other, and that no one's gender (or value…

I've heard "feminine energy" used plenty but just not in terms of sex, usually when talking about a group of women feeling empowered by being surrounded by women or something like that. It's definitely interesting to think about because the writer actually said "strong masculine energy" which jives with the…

Indeed, I would never dream of snooping on my husband because I don't have any reason to believe he's hiding anything and our relationship is healthy. The one time I ever did snoop it was a super unhealthy relationship, he was shady and I was lying and being shady about stuff, and I did find proof he'd lied (not quite…

Well, I enjoy face spitting (on the receiving end) but it is definitely niche and I would figure if you asked me and 9 other random women, I'd be the only one giving it a thumbs up. I mean, even if you asked 10 men, I don't know if more than a couple would note that as something they especially like. It's definitely…

My husband and I have decided against kids but it wasn't a hard decision because I have never wanted them and he was fully on board with that. I don't understand wanting kids because they seem like a real hassle for about 20 years, they drain you of all your money and free time, and there's no guarantee they won't be…

But Dan doesn't have anything to apologize nor was he being a jerk, he's being realistic. The average gyno a woman is going to go to about changed in sex after childbirth are likely to have little help to offer. There is pelvic floor therapy but finding someone to do it, paying for it, and whether or not it will fix…

I don't watch that many vlogs but I basically have YouTube videos on the entire time I'm at work- makeup and clothing stuff mostly but some of those people also vlog and if I like someone enough I'll watch that, too. And sometimes I am like "I am literally watching someone shop at Target what the fuck?" but it's…

Exactly. Ultimately (and Dan might not even know this explicitly) what I've read is that doctors do not have a ton of knowledge in how to fix these kinds of vaginal changes post-childbirth beyond pelvic floor exercises (which are only effective in some cases.) I really appreciate Dan's banging of the "hands free PIV…

Look, I don't know you (and it sounds like a you would not at all like to hear that I find a shaved head, big guys attractive! And not because I think they're cops but just because it's one of my "types"!) But you seem to have a really negative self image to an unhealthy degree. It's gonna make it real difficult to…

That's not what I said, I said you should have reasonable expectations for what a woman looks like as she ages and also just acceptance for the wide array of differences in appearance that constitute beauty/attractiveness, just as a woman should have for you. Are you suggesting otherwise? Because if you are, that's a…

I mean….it is true that you should adjust your expectations to coincide with your age and appearance, though, right? What am I missing? They phrased it poorly but the message is basically right. You of course can still date attractive women but they obviously aren't going to look like 20 year old bikini models either.…

I didn't really get the big deal- it's describe din the call, these parents have always been weird and distant, so it's not like a great shock that they are remaining that way. Some people have kids despite not really being warm, parent-y people (I've known some of them) and are not your typical…

Eh, he's been in a successful long term relationship, has a kid, talks a good bit about this relationship with his own family, presumably has relationships with his in-laws. He's as qualified about that as anyone else (which is to say he's not particularly qualified but the only qualification for being an advice…