Jaime likes it harsh! TOF can draw a butt and a bulge tho, I think they're hot!

I'll re-phrase. You thought you found something offensive in his phrasing but then it turned out that his phrase developed separately from the negative associations of "bag" and "slop" in regards to women and he used them literally as just a descriptor for something he finds gross or confusing.

He didn't call her a slut, the "unclean= slutty" connotation you were trying to find in his turn of phrase was the historical bit. Like I said, he's applied it to men women and the brain, just because it could be used in an offensive way does not mean he used it in an offensive way. If someone was trying to take a…

But wouldn't it behoove you to take a free trip (especially if you have no intention to move there or marry someone you meet on the trip like they want you to) from someone like Sheldon Adelson? I could understand not supporting him but taking his money to go on a free trip? I feel like I'd be morally in the clear.

Some people like cartoons, or still images, or videos. My husband likes still images, and even keeps MAGAZINES around, I had no idea anyone still used those, I found it adorable.

Not only did she physically pack the weed inside herself, she wore the period jeans AND wore a flannel around her waist to she could chose when to show of the blood stain!

This reminds me of the last flight I took, it was delayed, both coming and going, by someone getting ill and us having to wait for the medics. It makes you feel REAL shitty but when you are on the middle leg of an international flight with 3 connecting flights, you get very insensitive and just want that person to…

That is what makes me think there might be more going on. If she's never been jealous like this before (he doesn't mention it) you would think she's developed a certain amount of comfort with their commitment and perhaps it's just something about this woman or situation that's raising a red flag. And the flag doesn't…

Exactly, because his ultimate question wasn't "what should I do about my wife?" it was "how should I let my friend down" which Dan answered and the "bag of slop" was an aside. I believe that he really should consider his wife's feelings and break off the friendship in the short term and then get into what it was…

I think that really did help build my husband's confidence, starting with power chords while also practicing the real chords. He just recently started trying to learn guitar but I'm pretty amazed at how much he's been able to pick up. But yeah, every new thing he learns he's like "I can't do this!" and then in a week…

Really? We're going to hold Dan responsible for an insult that sounds mildly gendered based on historical usages people don't even really use anymore? I'm a woman and a feminist and I am giving him the benefit of the doubt that he thought "bag of slop" just sounded gross. I just googled it and he has called men and…

Sounds like it could be depression and/or low drive. But also, even if you are depressed, you seem self-aware enough to not let a lack of sex define you, like those incel morons. So much of sex is more than just the physical sensation, it's so wrapped up in people's self esteem that sometimes it's hard to separate the…

I also think that it's not actually much about the act of sex for these people, it's about masculinity, and how they don't see themselves as masculine because they have bought into the idea of a virile "real man" who can fuck anyone he wants. They are fixated on a lack of sex because, to them, women have taken away…

Well, they might trip over their words, but I still think it's worth taking them seriously since there are the kind of guys also who like SWAT and doxx random women who they don't like online or, worst case scenario, going on shooting sprees of "popular" people. When they get "radicalized" with this shit they can be…

She was an interesting lady. We worked together at a reproductive right non-profit so she was an avowed feminist, but was very into pageants in general- she entered plus-size pageants herself, she judged all manner of pageants, and of course put her daughter in them. She would bring videos to work to show me sometimes…

I do wonder why she doesn't consistently pad her titties, she almost never does (she had horrible wonky tits in the roller skating outfit, tho) because I really think it would help with her proportions. Especially this challenge because her partner had her titties all out!

I learned about it similarly but not from the show but rather from someone who put her daughter in those kinds of "High Glitz" child pageants. I also learned about "wiglets"- wigs for babies. They were basically putting those babies in drag, it was INSANE.

I disagree that they weren't good together, it seemed like maybe they had been at one time but had just let daily life wear them down. And it always seemed to me that Brett was a baby who did most of the shutting down and refusing to even try to treat his issues. So instead of doing it on his own, it required their…

While Michelle was passionate, she didn't really seem to use that passion to develop a clear concept for this school. And I would argue that Michelle was also doing the school mostly for herself. I guess I tuned out a lot of the charter school stuff because I always assumed it was a charter school for an area that…

Anna was being punished for being too aggro towards Michelle (although Michelle really DID need to be pushed into actually developing some kind of plan for her charter school) and for relying on things that look good to richie rich people (liking something just because it's "french" because France has an air of…