It seemed a little like a cop out to not show any actual racism, it made the conclusion seem like Dre was talking out his ass the whole time. I mean, at this particular time when police misconduct towards black men is so much of talking point, to conclude basically that racism is NBD for a black teenage boy seems like…

Ug, before it came out a I read an article about how Terrance Howard is a notorious woman beater (they were comparing it to the Cosby stuff, in that he's never been properly charged but there have been a string of incidents) and would that impact the shows he on. So now I just can't get past that and watch it even…

AND it was a little too much like the conclusion of "the nod" episode; he doesn't nod at other black kids but he does nod at other nerds…it's just sort of a weak way to end both episodes, like he still isn't acknowledging racism exists!

I'm glad that I didn't experience that phase…I'm 32 and me and all my friends seem pretty normal, no crippling anxiety, just reggie married people, some with kids, some without. I am one of these people really enjoying my 30's, finally have the job I want, fun normal marriage, enjoying not having kids while all my…

Me as well, thinking about celebrities is just a bit too unrealistic for me to suspend disbelief for jill off purposes. But any number of my husband's friends have figured prominently in my fantasies…not really embarrassing for me, but I would be embarrassed if my husband knew the details (I know he does the same in…

I would say Sophia, Morello, Poussay, Nicky, and Flaca are all gorgeous, even in prison garb.

I only recently started watching the re-boot of Wentworth…I have nothing really to say other than like it's Australian and about a women's prison and she's Australian and on a show about a women's prison and isn't that interesting?

I think it's weird that they didn't mention it but she made a pretty big viral video of her transforming from a traditionally hot woman to a very hot butch woman, that's what I knew her from. Not that this helps her reputation as "viral video star" fits in too well with "model and DJ."

I too really liked that Big Krit and don't think it got enough end-of-year love. Run the Jewels 2 of course got lots of love but all of it deserved.

I happened upon the last 30 minutes of it in a hotel and was immediately obsessed…it was just too dang cute, I was losing my mind. And I was like "whoa this is some heavy shit" and it was funny, I kept hearing it was good but I was hearing it from parents who I assumed meant "good for a movie I had to watch with my…

I just started watching this season (late in the game obviously) and that's all I kept thinking! Well, what exactly I was thinking was "Damn, he is just like Peter from the Mindy Project but like trashier and with no redeeming qualities but I am still super attracted to him."

I've never read the whole thing, but that Love Languages book addresses this and while "love languages" sounds ridiculous, it is basically saying some people show love through gifts and some people don't, and thoughtful gift giving is just never going to be their "language" to express love and they express it another…

Yeah, my husband prefers it. And so do I. But it's definitely a thing- it can be difficult for the giver to maintain that particular steady speed and depth that precedes orgasm on their own, in most of my experience the man has to take control and move my head or fuck my face at their needed rhythm. Which is fine…

You are 10 years apart, and not just 10 years, but like a very meaningful 10 years where you begin developing as a person. I'm sure she is smart but she is barely out of college, she has barely lived and is likely still figuring her shit out. You actually do not want that, in terms of a relationship, so think of it…

Have you seen/held a glass dildo? They are solid, it's not like a hollow glass vase. I have had a few, specifically for butt stuff, and I just couldn't fathom a way to break it within my body, my butt muscles are just not that strong, I guess. I've dropped them on the floor many times (clumsy) and they didn't break…

While academia is super gossipy, it's also still super common for teachers to hook up with students, ex or otherwise. Unless you know your department is super uptight about these things, it seems pretty harmless if your wife is cheering you on.

I'm sure you struggle with your bland identity as just another blue cookie-hungry monster, you can totally relate.

Can you not inquire if they are kinky at all before you hook up? Certainly, I've experienced, that it's easier to get freaky with some dranks and my husband definitely brings it harder and freakier when drunk, but there is still a base level kinky-ness that comes out even sober. Get with hot DILFS like that!

That's a great mentality. Tumblr is the main source of any agitation about overboard PC gender identity stuff. But it's still no skin off my nose to respect someone's identity, really, even if I don't totally get it. I'm a monogamously married woman, so I already don't fuck twinks, so I'm good! If I went MILF cougar…

I used it successfully in D.C., Austin, and Dallas, so never huge cities but the metro DC/VA/MD is a pretty big swath. I've never understood how men's crazy messages would be a deterrent, they were hilarious! But, I will say, I think I was overall very lucky, I never got repeat harassing messages, usually just "one…