It's not the most PC stance but I truly do think that the negative side effect of the (positive) acceptance of more varied gender expression, is otherwise very average, feminine women wanting identifying as something else for a reason I don't quite understand, to feel cool? Different? I know I really jumped into a…

I dunno, I had a lot of luck doing that on OkCupid. I put up a "casual hookup" profile and never had any of those problems (aside from getting lots of crazy crude messages but they just made me laugh.) I met my husband this way, I met a few ex-boyfriends and just friends (when the chemistry wasn't there.) Again, it…

I also really enjoyed that Peter understood he had a feminine silhouette because of his "beer butt and weed boobs"

Tracy Jordan, who is giving guitar icon Peter Frampton enigmatic clues about a secret treasure

It makes me feel uncomfortably broke!

Just to belabor your point, while it isn't any kind of tropical paradise, it is on the water and so it is a place a Texan might go on vacation to be near a beach (albeit a gross beach, I've never actually been there and went to Galveston instead, I assume it's similarly gross.)

I think hat is incredibly rare these days. For example, I used to work at the public library of a mid-sized Texas suburb, is was big enough to have 5 library locations, the airport, a nice convention center, basically a happenin' town in many ways but ALL of the bookstores closed, no chains, no independent stores at…

Exactly the same for me. I met my husband on OKCupid just as a casual hook-up, wasn't like wowed by his profile or pictures or anything. But realized when we first met that he was indeed much cooler and cuter than I expected but still planned to continue seeing him casually (I had a boyfriend but we were long…

I met my husband online, strictly to hook up at first, and he wore a tan t-shirt the first time we met. Just a regular t-shirt that was the same color as his skin, I thought it was the weirdest look and we still laugh about it. And he prefers really light colored jeans which is weird to me as well but I eventually…

I am always afraid that this never-before-felt desire to make babies is going to appear out of nowhere. Have you always wanted kids but the desire has gotten way stronger or did you go from 0-60 on the kid wanting scale?

I legit love him, I find him weirdly super attractive, I enjoy his frog croaky voice, I generally love fat bearded guys so he was my immediate love when I started watching Freaks and Geeks. I also think he's quite funny (I mean, I thought it was generally accepted that Superbad and Pineapple Express were funny and he…

I kinda unfairly assumed girls who were into that did have serious daddy issues and was judgey…but now I'm one of them! So I was reminded that as open minded as I thought I was, I still have to check myself. I will say that my husband got into it with a girl who DID have daddy issues and he realized "this works for…

I didn't get it for a long time, it seemed to be something for people with weird parent issues because otherwise the thought of your parents in a sexual context usually turns people off. BUT as a submissive gal who married a guy who likes daddy talk I just kinda had to accept that he enjoys the power play and mild…

Having a baby if you are poor and young will make it that much harder for you to rise out of that situation, are you refuting that fact? I mean, women are entitled to make decisions about their own reproduction but if it wasn't a wanted baby, but rather an accident, I don't see how one should not be encouraged to…

Eh, people are just proud of their kids for existing, I think. I've been kind of Amber-y in my life, listless, not doing anything great career or relationship wise but my parents have always been proud of me just for like being a nice, funny, smart thing they created (not to toot my own horn, I'm just saying, that's…

I think it's quite common and not really squicky at all. It can get squicky just like any unwanted male attention if it's pushy or creepy. It does seem that men are more likely to mistake good customer service (or a bored employee looking to kill time chatting with a rando) for interest, but he'll know for sure as…

Yes! I can't imagine that being someone's first move with me, I'd know we were not meant to be if they me enjoying back rubs was so central to their sexuality! My husband every once in a blue moon wants a neck rub and I can oblige out of love but we exist, us back rub haters.

I would be the same as him, don't like receiving back rubs, don't like giving them since I have no idea how one is supposed to feel since they are so unpleasant to me. And it also seems really intimate, more so than sex, like something you'd do for someone you're in a relationships with, but again, that's just me, the…

I think sometimes well-meaning men over estimate how squicky it is for us ladies to be hit on/ asked out at work. If you aren't creepy, pushy, weird about it, it's not threatening. I think there ARE enough instances of men making women feel unsafe/uncomfortable at work that I can understand why one would try to…

I think "awful" is strong but it did seem like they somehow expected Joel and Juliat to suddenly be able to abracadabra make Sydney all better. Saying "I don't care why your kid is acting out!" is weird, like of course you want the behavior targeting your daughter to stop but you have to have some sympathy for the…