I just posted my take on this - it's probably still in the greys. I don't think there's a solid universal line. But when you think about the way that East Asian women are treated in the US - like they're shallow subservient little sex kittens for white male fantasies - and renaming a group of them and keeping them…

I actually liked "Harajuku Girls" the song before I knew anything about the tour or... um, the album cover, which is way problematic. I thought it was sort of orientalist and simplifying, but it was mostly about a really cool fashion trend and the song was catchy. But then I learned that she had actually renamed a…

What's been really troubling to me about this story, and what I would dearly love to see become more a part of the conversation when it comes to rape, is how subjective "truth" can be. I've told this story a couple times here, but when I was 16, I was raped by a much older man from my karate class - a true predator…

Over for the time being for me, at least. :P It's actually usually me that gets overenthusiastic - I've never had a guy like, hold my head and thrust with abandon. So withholding sex forevahz would be sort of me punishing me for me getting too excited.

Oh God, that's horrific. The only time my throat burns is when I do actually throw up. Which... I know I'm talking about like it's nothing, but I actually do treat pretty seriously. If my throat bled? I can't imagine. Oh god.

Yeah, I learned that one the hard way. One bit of feminine domesticity in which I happily indulge is the discreet placement of a soft, absorbent towel on the bed table before BF arrives. :P

So... because it MIGHT be pee, it's banned? Is it like, a thing where we've grudgingly accepted that women are allowed to experience orgasm but we put our foot down on ambiguity of released fluid?

Word UP my friend. I love no-hands blowjobs but... let's just say sometimes size DOES matter, but not in the way you think. That has happened to me with countem' THREE different dudes. Twice and counting with current squeeze (an ability to handle this sort of thing with chillness and humor goes a long way in ensuring…

...Also, female ejaculation? WTF

Seriously. The first time I threw up all over a guy's dick and my throat burned for the next day or so I got the impression that this fun, harmless activity should maybe be performed with a bit more caution on his part and a bit less thoughtless enthusiasm on mine.

The real problem, Bradley writes is that "Emotion has outswept reason. Jackie, for example, alleges that one out of three women who go to UVA has been raped. This is silly."

I dunno man. I've got no horse in this race but I kind of like this idea. If only because... I think it's fascinating - the multiple meanings of the concept of Satan and the way the imagery surrounding him can lend itself to so many alternatives to the kind of political religiosity we see in the US, and at the same…

Ok, partial explanation for one particular line: "He recalled: "I would kiss my mother's feet because they smelled of paradise. She would glance coyly and cry sometimes."

Wait, I've heard this before. Where have I heard this before?

In the past week, homosexuals launched a very frightening and fast-growing petition asking TLC to cancel 19 Kids and Counting.

I think of the friends in this case as the women who strongly advocate for FGM in areas where it's becoming more controversial. They see themselves as looking out for their daughters' best interests since they know how they'll be treated if they DON'T get it done. I want to call the friends vile here, but I can't. I…

Thanks for sharing; I'd never thought of it that way.

Thanks. :) It's been two decades now, so the immediate impact of it is long dulled.

Oh man, I have almost that exact story. I was 15 or 16, it was a date rape by a 36 year old guy in my karate class that had preyed on me for a year to gain my trust first. When I told my mom I'd been raped, she accused me of lying, and here's the fucked up part: *I* thought I was lying too. Because I hadn't fought him…

So... this is a bit off-topic, but I found an incredible gif here once of a woman who spread her legs and sucked a screaming dude into her vagina, which was apparently a black hole of some kind. Then she looks at the camera and smirks like a BOSS. Look, I swear I'm not making this up. This gif existed. It existed and…