Kind of like, “I don’t care if you’re purple.”

Okay, so what if a transgender person was murdered for being transgender and 10,000 people came out with signs that read, “We’re all transgender” as a way of showing support. Isn’t this essentially the same thing?

Sure, some couples swing, try different stuff out, etc. Whatever works for them.

Sometimes it’s more complicated than that. Sexual chemistry can kind of die-peter out- as emotional chemistry and security take over. That’s very common. It doesn’t mean the sex is horrible, but it does mean that things are warm, or lukewarm,rather than hot.

When you spent 30 years playing around before getting married at 47- it’s pretty damned healthy.