finnsburner
finnsburner
finnsburner

Some people don’t feed the trolls or take them out of the greys. I do, but mostly so people can call you an asshole for writing that.

Well this is slowly shifting from “clown car crash lol” into “I am genuinely uncomfortable that he’s going to end up like Chris Henry” territory.

Once again, a man’s hurt feelings outrank a woman’s life.

That’s kind of what women have been asking for this whole time (read: all of human history), and exactly why women are fearful in the first place. Because, in the ways that matter on a societal level, we don’t get seen as or treated like we’re actually equal humans to men. It’s nice if you treat women differently on

Then you need to talk to other men about gender-based violence and work towards deconstructing the culture of toxic masculinity that enables such violence, not blame women for responding in legitimate ways based on their lived experience of that violence.

What is up with the swearing? From “nice guy” just going to his hotel room to ranting anger in less than an hour, for real? All while wondering why women live in fear of men in general, oh the irony! Women are basically raised to fear men, to mistrust men, to believe that men only want sex and if you’re not on guard

Yes she does, because of the trauma she must have incurred that caused that reaction. That response was learned, and I hope to never experience the lesson that taught her it.

Women ARE shot for standing up for themselves! Just like in this article! How exactly are we supposed to know WHICH men will decide to kill us? How do we know which guy will take offense to “no” and decide to shoot or stab us to death? There is no way of knowing, so we would rather be safe than sorry.

Ah, I see all of the comments from this post have really sunk in.

Oh my GOD. You are literally commenting on an article about a woman being shot for standing up for herself to say that the idea of a woman being shot for standing up for herself is “insane”. Just stop fucking talking. If there is a time and place for your narcissistic rants about how unfair it is that women treat you

And there it is.

Yeah but this isn’t really sharing a burden. Her burden is “is this guy going to attack me” whereas yours is “wow I feel uncomfortable so unfair.” You’re commenting on an article where a woman turned a man down and he KILLED her. Come on.

Yes, let’s please make this about you and how it hurts your feelings when women are understandably afraid of men.

Well....that escalated quickly. Not so sure you’re actually “one of the good ones” if you can go from “my feelings are hurt” to “fuck you she was crazy” in .02 seconds, honestly.

You know, in an article that is literally about a woman being shot dead by a stranger for nothing more than declining his unwanted sexual attentions, complaining about how you don’t like it when someone gives you dirty looks might be a little insensitive.

So take a different route to the hotel or take the next elevator. As you can see, she’s afraid for a very good reason (you are commenting on an article about a man who murdered a woman in vengeance hours after she rejected his advances at a bar!).

Good advice for men. Not as useful for women who routinely get assaulted when they try it.

“Fear isn’t constructive. Nor is terror. And at the end of the day it is merely a barrier. I’m sick of this two-sided awfulness where most people end up never getting the point.”

And the only—ONLY—reason they came back with “Not enough evidence” is because the detective in charge of the “investigation” (a guy who makes a healthy sum moonlighting as security for FSU football) didn’t do ANY actual investigating. Primarily because the FSU Athletic Department told him not to. Hence (in part) the