I love you, and think you should write this column instead of Jane, but I don’t agree with you at all on this.

Yes! How hard is it to regularly buy a stack of Thank-you cards and a roll of stamps? I don’t know why some people find it such a burden to be polite.

Maybe her partner can write the damn thank you notes! And she can just tell her mom, “please contact partner. He/she/they is/are in charge of this task.”

Agreed. Don’t be an asshole not say “thank you” when someone gives you a present, whether or not you needed or wanted it. If you received a gift in person, would you just ignore the gift-giver? No. You would say “thank you” because you are a consider human being and don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings who did…

I have no clue how a ‘feminist’ site would allow a writer to suggest taking away bodily autonomy from the person who trusts you the most.

“Write a goddamn thank you note.”

Hard disagree. Write a goddamn thank you note. 3 lines: “Thank you for your sweet gift. Junior loves the [whatever]. We’ll think of you whenever baby [does thing, looks at thing. whatever]. Love & kisses/gratefully/humbly, New Parent. Same script for all gifts, so don’t worry about being that personalized (unless your…

Its a backhand way to justify her own sexual choices. By putting down others. It’s cool and fun right?

“seven year friendship”

Yes! It’s like saying. Since those security cameras where there I should have committed the murder somewhere else. Oops my bad.

That apology is absurd. Even the start of it isn’t about him being sorry for cheating on his wife, but rather that because he is in a public position, it wasn’t a smart decision to cheat on his wife. I can’t fathom why his PR team didn’t read that line through and just go no as that just makes the whole thing feel so…

It just happened, you know? He slipped and his dick landed in another woman. I mean, how can you avoid something like that? It was bound to happen.

put myself in an environment where only bad things can happen and they did

I guess mother was wrong, sometimes the trash DO take itself out.

Cheating is all about the cheater and has nothing to do with the person who is being cheated on. If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you. I don’t know how people don’t know this already.

Why does he always act like he tripped and fell and, whoops, his dick slid into someone on the way down?

See, Eniko? We told you that you would be out here looking crazy if you kept talking on social media.

I generally agree, but I find it rather strange that the letter never once mentions how his/her fiancée feels about this situation considering that this is her sister. We know the LW feels the sister is a user and a nightmare and would rather she not come at all if she insists on bringing her children with her, but…

Irish Twins

Nah, you don’t actually have to invite her, and the proof is right there in her ‘We’ll see about that’ response. You invite people to your wedding who are there to support you, on your day, as you embark upon the wonderful experience of having your relationship legally and religiously authorized and recognized. Her…