No, not at all! I love wine, and I'd take a good wine over any cocktail in the world. Still it's it's something I'll only order at restaurant bars— and even then they need to have a good list. The downside to being into wine is that it makes the cheap stuff carried at most bars practically undrinkable.

Unfortunately I think we're on opposite ends of the cocktail spectrum: I really do not like sweet or creamy drinks, nor anything involving Coke / Pepsi / sodas. My go-to staples are vodka martinis (ideally with olives), Manhattans, and G&Ts. Old Fashions are good too.

Thank you!! I completely agree. My guy and I are pretty sexually uninhibited (public sex, group sex, anal, rimming, etc— you'd be hard-pressed to call either of us uptight), and I have no problem with bodily functions (caretaking someone bedridden will get you used to the messiness of the human body in a hurry) but…

I weigh 100 lbs. My 6'6" guy weighs twice that. I don't think I own a single item of clothing that he'd begin to fit into. (One time he tried to put on a pair of my jeans as a joke and he couldn't even get them over his calves.) I do not think we will be participating in this "trend."

Wow. I was about to post a reply saying just that, and then saw your post. The model looks unnervingly like her, and it's true, I think she did work for CK.

That photo killed me. More like bunny soft porn! (And I agree. Bunny butts over cat butts any day.)

Oh wow. Thank you. (And I can only imagine.)

That first look with the short sweater and long peach skirt I'd wear around the house.

She does wedding dresses too? These I have to see.

Wow. I adore all of these. I had no idea who Jenny Packham was until this post and now I want to go drool over everything she's ever designed.

Oh, man. That sounds like a rough situation. He seems like a sweet guy, though, and really does seem into you, and that picture! Aw. My recommendation is that you work on seeing sex as an expression of how much he cares about you (it's you he wants, not sex in general!) and how much he's into you, and you help him…

Oh god. I could not imagine bringing anyone else. I'd want the dress to me mine, not something influenced by a committee of well-meaning friends. And I'd much rather have a bridal consultant or shop owner advise me on what looks best: they're professionals will have a much better idea of what sort of dresses match…

Maybe this guy? He's a young actor (and gay) and totally has the 1970s Iggy thing going.

Exactly.

It's true. He just had the crazy punk energy down. It's too bad Anthony Keidis is getting so old, too: I always thought he was kinda Iggy-like.

I love the look. It's unusual and striking and she has the sort of regal face to carry it off. I hope to be as awesome at 70-something.

I think it's intentional. She had sleeker and more flattering looks when she modeled in the past, but these days—and now that she's in her 70s!—she's going for a different sort of striking. I think it looks great, in a dramatic and sort of disturbing way.

How long have you two been sharing an apartment? My guy and I have been living together for a few years, and because we both trade off on buying groceries / making dinner / etc. we both consider any food in the house shared. I couldn't imagine getting upset at him for eating something I'd brought home, or vice versa.…

Except in the case of women. Women who dress in drag tend to look more like younger men than men their own age. (And I love the idea of Elly Jackson, but their faces are quite different. Jackson definitely has Bowie's look nailed, though.)

Of course it's not necessarily misogynistic! It's misogynistic if the poetic language is cruel and demeaning. Just because language is poetic doesn't mean it can't be sexist / racist / misogynistic / ageist. (And frankly I wouldn't describe "trainwreck" and "saggy lactose factory" as shining examples of poetic…