"Ravage"? Eating disorders ravage the body, and yet many women who suffer from them are still seen as beautiful. Cosmetic surgery also ravages the body, yet many women who get their breasts cut open or their fat suctioned out or their noses carved up do so to become more beautiful. The issue has nothing to do with…

Creepy and child pornish? Ouch, seriously. I happen to have a body type just like the women above (if anything even I'm even more flat-chested), and I have a hard time finding underthings that don't make me look like a pedophile's wet dream, because the only bras that fit me well tend to be cotton trainers from the…

It should go without saying, but thank you.

I'm with you on the peanut m&m's, but I always wear lingerie under clothes! It makes me feel sexy to have some paired little set under whatever I'm wearing, and it's not hard to find blush-or-peach-or-skin-toned versions that work under white shirts. (Also, the stuff above is not their ready-to-wear line; La Perla's…

I know! I hate padded bras but it's so hard to find bralettes or A cups that look sexy. I used to just buy bralettes in the juniors department, but after I while I got sick of looking even more like a twelve-year old.

Wolford makes amazing stuff for titless twigs like us. It's stupidly expensive, but inspiring: http://www.wolford.com/

Well, if it helps, being titless is no guarantee against not feeling vulgar, and I'd take JUGGS over kiddy porn any day. Me in certain bras looks like a 13-year-old playing dress-up. Definitely not a good kind of vulgar.

Hey now. Those women are built like me, and I love a hard fuck as much as the next bitch. Also, I have a hard time finding lingerie that looks sexy on my boobless and bony little ass, and the line above actually looks hot. Granted, Aubade is much sexier, but still.

I love the term lady. It's more sassy and complimentary than "ma'am" or "gal" and more complimentary and respectful than "miss" or "girl." It's like a man being called "a gentleman"—it's hard not to take as a compliment.

Right. The last time I heard the word 'ladies' used in public was when a bartender addressed a tableful of aging biker chicks with "You ladies need a refill?" In that context, they were most definitely ladies, even though I'd not be surprised to learn that any number of them had already had already shot down their…

And for Iggy, John Cameron Mitchell, from Hedwig and the Angry Inch. No question.

Tilda Swinton as Bowie, no question. If anything she's even more alien and ethereal than he is. And they already look like twins.

Heh. The best shape I was in ever was when I had to walk three miles to work each day. It didn't feel like exercise, but after a year of daily six-mile walks I felt stronger and more solidly powerful than I did when I was running 20 to 30 miles a week. My whole body was all toned and sleek

Does this person work for Medium? The ad sounds nauseatingly similar to that company's recent posting for an Office Host.

I highly doubt she had a nose job. My nose has narrowed / lengthened as I've gotten older, and most people don't have the same nose at 30 that they do at 20.

A guyet sounds like something I, as a bi woman, might go on after dating too many bros. "My number? Sorry, dude. I'm on a guyet. Chicks-only for the next few months."

I've found the same. Obviously you'd not want to base a relationship on the stuff, but if you're already committed but stuck in one of those communicative jams that couples sometimes get into, there's no better solution. And in my experience, the therapeutic realizations really do last. (Plus it's just an amazing…

I had no idea what Pepsi or Coke or root beer or any sort of soda tasted like until I was in college, and to this day sweetened carbonated shit makes me gag. If you're not used to the flavor, the stuff is just repulsive. I like juice (and pretty much any sort of alcohol) just fine, but soda? Blech. I won't be…

I agree. I sounds like something you'd hear from Doctor Phil, but I haven't seen any admiring posts about him on Jez recently. And this article — http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1228054/If-women-compliments-like-men-wed-feel-better-ourselves.html — uses Paris Hilton as an example of women who know how to…

I don't think the article was speaking about positive portrayals, but rather about a complex and nuanced ones, rather than blunt stereotypes. None of the characters in Mad Men are angels, sure, but they're nothing if not human, and most are anything but stereotypical.