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So a woman isn’t free to wear more clothing if she believes she feels comfortable with more clothing, because people like you have decided this for her - based on YOUR morals.

And you aren’t suggesting women need to reveal more of their body about some social ideal of how little clothing a woman must wear to be sexy or free, to appeal to male gaze, right?

White women married to black men are generally and almost totally the least honest view on racism experienced by black people - and the most likely to assume they have some expertise and honest analysis.

No sorry, reality is that white women’s role in racism/oppression of black people does not put them in with ‘everyone else’ and leaving all the blame for racism/oppression of other groups all on white men.

White women have always been white and always participated in oppression/racism of black people in America. They weren’t just delicate flowers struggling to exist and may now choose ‘tactics’ to fit in to the anti-blackness.

White men can be poor too, right? You think white women are just poor, but the white men in their lives are not? Their fathers, sons, brothers, cousins, husbands, grandfathers, uncles? Not poor?

Hillary Clinton would have become President before a black man, if she wasn’t light years inferior to that black man. And if she didn’t employ racism to try to win that election and it didn’t go as well as she planned. Not like white women haven’t always been in the White House RIGHT ALONG SIDE white men, right? The

We know you think it - and that is about who you value and whose pain is easiest for you to ignore. You really can’t visualize a reality that doesn’t match that preference.

So you figure the slave trade and slavery wasn’t men and women victimized in horrific numbers? I guess the facts of that existence are really vague to you, but you figure the number is fairly low?

Hard to convince the ignorant and the very young who have a dim view of the world being their relatively few years of awareness.

And when you say ‘all women’ keep in mind that white women aren’t centered in that ‘all women’ and consider the reality of de jure and de facto oppression, not just the white feminist handbook.

As a black woman you should know the history of how legally having the right to vote doesn’t mean the safety and unfettered challenge to exert it. Notably, heard of the civil rights voter campaigns that had to be waged for black people, men and women, to access the right to vote and the people beaten and killed for

Black men were lynched for other than white women as property issues, and not only black men were lynched - so were women, children, the very old and he very young. Let’s not get fixated on white women’s oppression by white men as the ‘key’ to why black men were lynched. And let’s note that when black men were lynched

Because they have freedom to exist and because they have a lot of support in direct beliefs and family members who think ‘oh they aren’t really mean racists’

If he was a white woman he’d be immediately described as mentally-ill and charming, and he’d be offered his own reality tv show.

Chris Brown needs to work on his character and his behavior, and consider that may not leaving himself open to interactions with a “Baylee” who likely knew that she could yell ‘cops’ and point to Chris Brown any moment she was denied what she wanted or got caught trying to take pictures to sell and share online to

You also assume that unless someone works out just like you do, dresses like you do, just doesn’t workout. That’s stupid.

“But the cult of it is a complex, rude imposition”

Elizabeth Smart is a rape victim who didn’t decide to empower herself as a woman by becoming a prostitute, didn’t decide to become a dominatrix to express her pain, didn’t strip naked and pose with a blow-up doll of her abuser to turn her pain into art, and didn’t explain how it sexually ‘freed’ her from cis het

People’s whose sexual views and values are shaped by the porn they use aren’t going to take anything you’ve said seriously because that would mean the porn wasn’t effective in shaping their perspectives.