Non-Asian here, but fuck yes! I live in a community with a large Asian population, and you can pretty much count on the fact that the ONLY people around here wearing masks and practicing social distancing will be Asian. There are maybe twenty-five of the rest of us trying to keep up (exaggeration, but it feels like it)…

So, it’s pretty late and it’s feeling like one of those nights where sleep is an iffy proposition. I want to toss out a question to the older folks here.

New shitty romance update! Or, “Fuck this, I’m giving up and joining a cat-themed nunnery.”

Hey y’all! I’m eating a caprese salad that The Bartender made for me, and I have a glass of cab sav. We’re watching this documentary about Tony Robbins, and we have a fire going in the fireplace.

Partner made a key lime pie and it was amazing.

Kind of obsessed with gardening and my chickens at the moment. My flock of bigs and littles has finally integrated! No pecking order issues and everyone is getting along. And the flowers. Of my ❤️

That mousse looks so refreshing in the juice box.  And that sundae just looks amazing.  What could be better than homemade fudge sauce and raspberries over ice cream??

Blueberries! Soo good and fresh off the vine.

Hi everyone 👋!

Shelter Cat Update!

Overall I’ve had a pretty good week! My workplace is still running with reduced patrons, and the government hasn’t given us any real indication of when things can change again, but that’s OK! I’ve managed almost 2 full days of work this week, which has been incredible considering I’ve barely been able to hang the…

Oh yummmmmmmm I fricken LOVE fresh raspberries.

Update from last week : I’m panicking because he wants me to get one of the dogs because he chewed up a lot of the rv when I was grocery shopping and my fiance was outside drinking with the neighbor. He was so mad, he screamed that I had to get rid of him and that the dog couldn’t be left alone and ruining out lives…

Currently sitting at home with the WORST CRAMPS EVER. Haven’t had cramps that reduced me to tears since I was in my early 20's. And I had plans, too. It could be time for a doctor’s appointment to talk about the Change of Life. Sigh.

Anyone out there dealing with a recently widowed mother (72 YO TODAY - we went day drinking)? I love my mom and we are very close. My only brother died unexpectedly last year in April, and my dad in February of this year. My SIL and her kids are 8 hours away, so the day to day is left for me (my SIL and I are great,…

I moved last Saturday. It’s still a work in progress, but it’s almost done. I finally have a kitchen that has more than one outlet and more than 2 square feet of counter space. I have my own washer and dryer. It’s like being a real adult.

This past week was mostly miserably hot and humid, so it was mostly food on the grill, and cool desserts, like chocolate mousse, in a juice glass!

This week I’ve learned that the Lost Cause was probably the single most successful rewriting of history in all of time. I’ve also learned that most Southerners don’t really know SHIT about Reconstruction.

After months of getting by with a shitty laptop, I got a new one for my birthday. Now I will be able to get on this site a lot easier. Yay! I’ve been running a fever for a few days so all fun is cancelled for now. In other news, I have a mild crush on someone I’ve only spoken to on the phone and I ate a dozen lemon…

As always, I hope everyone is doing well this evening. After more than 100 days of social distancing, I feel like the tiny human & I are in GroundHog’s Day. We pretty much are doing the same thing every single day. Our twice daily walks have kept me sane and the weather has been favorable so we can be outside luckily.…