lbr though, porn isn't just "fulfilling a male fantasy", it creates and shapes and informs male fantasies, esp. for younger men who discovered porn before they ever saw a woman naked IRL. That's what I find more disturbing, it's one thing to have a fantasy that already existed fulfilled but I think porn can be…

My favorite hair story: my mom's best friend's kid was about three. One day her mother enters a room to find her scissors in hand with her hair lying in heaps on the floor. She freaks out and asks her, "Honey, why did you cut all your hair off with those scissors?!" And she replies, "Because I didn't have a sword!"…

I originally wrote this in response to someone else, but I want to share the story with as many as I can, so I'm posting my own thread, hoping that someone will take me out of the greys and that others will see this. This story changed my entire outlook on being a woman..especially one in public alone. I just feel it…

16 year old me had acne and Groucho Marx eyebrows. I went to a dermatologist for the acne and a waxer for the brows... Unfortunately I was prescribed Retin A for the acne. It says RIGHT ON THE TUBE not to get waxed while using it, but I was 16 and didn't read the tube. The wax ripped the skin right off. So ya know…

My mother decided that nothing would be prettier than a semi permanent bright red rinse in my ginger hair. So she walked in and squirted it on me WHILE I WAS IN THE SHOWER.

I have dark black hair. Long dark black hair. But when I was a teenager I was not happy having long dark black hair. However It's hard to lighten black hair when you don't know what you are doing and silly me I thought you could bleach your hair with actual bleach. So I went to the cupboard and got the javex and…

THIS IS THE BEST NEWS!! so excited for this sideblog.

Dredd is a surprisingly excellent movie. Make sure you catch that before it's gone.

Yeah, Revenge quickly went from "interesting premise" to "what the fuck is even happening in this show".

Because she wants to be like Beyonce by getting a stripper pole? I have no idea. The pearl-clutching "for the children" always cracks me up because people who jump to that conclusion are basically admitting that they're shitty parents and need other people to change their own actions so they don't have to talk to…

Hey, hey, hey!

See how powerful it is to be Black?

So, Huckabee is saying that someone with an MBA couldn't possibly know how to fix a car, and that "good old boys" (whatever the fuck that means) are incapable of earning advanced degrees? Good to know. As long as everyone knows their place - as he sees it - then everything will be A-OK.

So, Ted Nugent's jailbait problem is no big deal because he wasn't nominated for a Grammy? Really?

It amazes me that these dudes continue to agree to do his show. Like, do they still not know who John Stewart is, or do they all believe they can actually go toe to toe with him?

I've seen Jon Stewart go easy on guys like Marco Rubio and Bill O'Reilly before. But this? This was just a balls-to-the-wall ass reaming. Beautiful. Lovely. 10/10 would watch again.

On paper, Beyoncé is the poster child for Huckabee's "Bubba culture" (that's what he called it on The Daily Show last night) values:

BOG TROLL/GARDEN GOBLIN 2016.

Hmmm, suddenly all those idiots yelling about "freedom of speech" don't seem too keen on Seth Rogen's freedom of speech...