Yes, yes, saying that feminism will bring about societal change to benefit everyone and refusing to blame victims, I can see how I’m not helping.

They’re just so willfully ignorant. Must be exhausting, working so hard to ignore the reality in front of them.

If I’m what? A fat man-hating bitch? You haven’t based any of your other comments in fact, I don’t know why you’re pretending you’d start now. I believe the proper term for me is “Lesbian Shitass” but you’d have to ask Scott Baio’s wife to be sure.

Again, feminism is not a political group. Still. Didn’t change in the last few hours. What political groups do you identify with, since you say you can only identify with political groups that you completely agree with. I’m truly curious to know what those are.

It’s not even a good troll. My blood pressure ain’t even up. He’s missing out by not calling me a fat man-hating bitch, that’s for damn sure.

You can be whatever you wanna be, baby. Oprah taught us all that. You should maybe be against feminism on a different website. We’re pretty pro-feminism here. Which is, coincidentally, not a political movement. Just FYI. You seem to have gotten lost on the way to reddit. Safe travels. Fare thee well.

I’m not sure what the fuck you are doing on jezebel. You must be new.

Oh my god, you’re so right. Women should just stop being victims. That’s the way to end crime. Don’t want to get robbed? Don’t own anything. Don’t want to be set on fire for leaving your boyfriend? Shouldn’t have been wearing all those flammable clothes. How silly of me.

That’s exactly the point — upbringing, core values, familial ties...these are all socially influenced. Which means they can be socially influenced by feminism. Not in a day. Not in a year. It will continue to take generations to get there, but you’re right — if your dad beats your mom, you’re not going to take the…

I think we should all pool our sofa change to buy this man a dictionary.

Of course, of course. We’re the sex gatekeepers, we hold all the power, right? If only we could be honest and reasonable, incidences like this wouldn’t happen. How easily we forget our places. Let me go make you a sandwich.

If the guy hadn’t been subjected to the daily inherent message than men are more valid than women, he may not have had the same violent reaction to her leaving him. Furthermore, he may not have seen hitting her as a valid response to his upset feelings, which is what prompted her to leave him in the first place. You…

About a month ago, a beloved coworker came up behind me to hug me. I headbutted him in the jaw (hard!!) because suddenly someone was grabbing me from behind. I feel reeeeeeeally bad about it but I had zero control over that reaction. Nipping at me? Oh no. Not okay.

That’s why I have “the sick bowl” under my bed at all times. Puking in the toilet is always way worse, and makes me puke a lot more, to get my face that close to it. Besides, if you keep the sick bowl under the bed, you don’t have to rush through the house when you wake up sick, and you can grab it on the way to the…

I’m 29 (today!) and I remember Mad About You, and she directed a movie that she co-starred in with Colin Firth, and I remember him, so...

At work once we recreated all the boss’s personal photos. She had loads of photos of her sister and niece, so one day we got the team together, brought in props, and all recreated every photo. Hilarious. Non-destructive. That’s a prank. Surprise vaginal chemical burns? Not funny.

This is a hell of a reach, y’all. Do you mean to tell me that my itty bitty waist and round thing in your face is cultural appropriation? I thought it was cheeseburgers.

Me and my Frank Lloyd Wright dress (which I am wearing today) will take it.

I rock a lot of polka dots for sure. I have necklaces with pretzels, bunnies, a pug in glasses, and a pair of legs in fishnets. I have multiple bunny shirts. I have a bird sweater. It’s a lot of quirky. It’s very Jess Day, but I have to admit I don’t know who Gina Linetti is.

I don’t have anything against the company, I just can’t imagine a time where I’d need anything that they manufacture. I’m not sporty or gym-y and I don’t wear spandex. Let me know if they start making plus size sundresses, though.