It’s perfectly acceptable—encouraged, even—to maintain a vocabulary and spelling consistent with the audience you are writing for, not the country you are writing about. (I study British Lit in an American university so I’ve been well-schooled in this matter.) But as an innocent, wide-eyed traveler that has been…

She’s so dull. The only surprising thing about this article is that there are at least 38 fan accounts. I’d rather follow avocado toast or and account that’s just devoted to nuetral toned wall paper.

@ivankacurves

I did miss your post. I was just curios how people handle it as I am considering a relationship with someone 10 years my junior.

“seriously, that’s just a upper-middle class neighborhood”

Dude, Presidio Terrace is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay above a “upper-middle class neighborhood.” But yeah, Gawker network sucks.

Upper middle class? Have you priced Bay Area real estate lately?

Everybody sing! (NSFW)

Totally! I am 42 and my boyfriend is 30. The most common reaction I get is “you go girl!” which is condescending AND ALSO If I were a divorced dude with a girlfriend 13 years younger than me my feminist friends would all be bagging on me.

I really appreciate that black women, like Niesh, call for other WOC’s stories to be told. White women usually don’t think about perspectives told through BW or NB-WOC but black women always speak about their own experiences as BW and also conscious of other WOC (non-BW)‘s stories to be heard.

I was talking mostly of SF I guess.

I think the age of youngest person in the partnership matters the most when it comes to when an age gap becomes creepy. More than 5 years creeps me out if the younger person is in their early to mid 20s because the typical person of that age (I mean, now, not talking past generations) is struggling with paying tuition…

I’m 36 my husband is 51. Been together for seven years, drama free, loving, respect filled relationship. We’ve both helped each other grow as people. You sound very close minded.

La La looks amazing, I mean all of them but her outfit is just perfect.

Praying for your best friend’s sister-in-law’s cousin’s neighbor’s niece. So sad...

A 20 year age gap is never your business to decide if it’s okay or not if it’s a relationship between two consenting adults.

That looks super cute!!!! Also, a little humblebrag: I know Val Vogt. She’s from Del Rio, TX- my hometown- and was my sister’s BF in high school :)

Isn’t his second wife also his third wife? Amber may not be entirely clear of him yet.

my my my MY MY MY MY

That’s easy then. Never date anyone outside the parameters you’ve set for yourself.