It frankly makes me feel better about myself to know I wasn’t the only person who thought Schumer was walking the red carpet with a hot pink dildo.

1) We met when I was 21, and a self-described kid. We married when I was 30, after much careful discussion & consideration. I am now nearly 40. Again, reading comprehension.

I totally get it and it is most certainly a valid concern. Sorry for my frustration. Best of luck in whatever you decide.

Yep honey, having a chronic, likely fatal disease is DEFINITELY me breaking the rules of “aging physics”!

Apparently you didn’t read my response to the asshole above. You are coreect; that is something to thing about. Believe me, I DID thing about it when we entered a serious relationship...and decided it was worth it.

Well said! Agree that age matters....but then so do a lot of things, right? Not necesarily a deal-breaker.

“...there are so many other women in the world besides black and white women. Whose stories are not being told.”

Agreed! I want those pants.

Thank you, Nancy! Exactly! Glad that you guys have a good thing too :)

Well, parts of it are shity tech holes. I don’t think you can say that about El Cerrito, Berkeley, Oakland, etc. (And I concur! I’m a life-long Oaklander and I’m hella proud! :) )

Sure, it might be. And for many it is. However, chances are good that my husband will outlive me (see my response to commenter above).

Lol, it’s ADORKABLE?!? Not sure I’ve ever heard anyone use that word in earnest. You are too much.

Truth. My husband is 15 years older than me and it has NEVER been an issue or point of contention even when I was 21 and he 36 (and frankly, the age gap WAS an issue back then. He was divorced, had two kids, was a certified grown up and I was very much a kid. Now I’m 39 and he’s about to turn 54 and it’s a non-issue).

Why the hell are people so smugly self congratulatory about the fact they’ve never heard this song? Because it’s popular? Because it’s in Spanish? Because Justin Bieber?

Jordan is the sleaziest of the sleazy.

Jonathan 4eva!!!

Many thanks!

Right?? A few years ago we were briefly homeless due to a combination of huge medical debt and some questionable financial decisions. It was really fucking hard. We spent some time couch surfing and staying at shelters.

So, so true. Very white and painfully aged out of the demographic he’s trying to impres. I work at an elementary school, and I guarantee that any kid dabbing in 2017 (well, in Oakland, CA anyway) would hear about it from their peers.

Can we please not make fun of his name? He’s a transphobic, violent piece of shit that deserves our scorn, but not because of his fucking name. Casual racism really doesn’t help.