Thank you. That’s very nice of you to say! I really do try to stay optimistic, in life and on the internet, and I do mean what I say. Sometimes people could use some kindness, even when it’s from an annoymous stranger.

“I don’t owe you anything”

Your description of him “doing the wounded puppy thing” is basically your interpretation of where his mind was, not an actual reaction on his part. Much of what you wrote was just that - your idea of what was happening in his head. You were projecting big time. Anyone who gets rejected in the MIDDLE of a sex act is…

I honestly can’t believe you have so many people telling you that you did the right thing. Although the fact that someone telling you that you were out of line has so many stars is somewhat reassuring. Perhaps one reason you are so desperate for validation right now is because on some level you know you didn’t.

I agree with most people on here that you need some time before you start dating again and the guy was right to have hurt feelings, but do you know what? You’re fantastic! You told this story looking for support, most people told you you were in the wrong, and instead of getting defensive or angry you were like,…

He should have left. It sounds like he really likes her and overshot and didn’t leave because she asked him not to, so I hear you, but come on.

I thought I was going to get this resounding, “It’s your body!” and “what a nice guy (tm)“ consensus from the jezebel crowd, but I guess there are two sides to the story.

Ok, how did she barely escape a date rape? He stopped when she asked him to, each time. They fooled around naked and even then he never pushed for more. He was literally inside her and she asked him to stop and he did. I mean, he was mopey about it (probably took it as a personal comment on his abilities) but it…

I am struggling to see how/where he created drama. You might be projecting, because I think he handled being yanked around pretty well. Your behavior was very hot and cold, and when I put myself in his shoes it doesn’t feel good. It sucks to be a rebound to someone who’s using you to work out their own personal shit…

Breakups suck. And I hope this doesn’t sound mean, because I’ve definitely been there, but just reading this felt like you’re emotionally all over the place right now. It doesn’t sound like you were ready to be hanging out with this guy at all, let alone having sex.

I didn’t expect him to be THRILLED but his reaction was way over the top, right?!

I’m surprised this video hasn’t been debunked already. Yes their final versions are nice and bright (likely too bright for a cinema experience), but they cheated on their original scenes. Some of them have obviously been desaturated.

and...CUT.

Adipose, you say?

Damn you.

Lard Almighty! That was funny.

This had me cringing in delight so hard my face hurts.

It’s because while that is historically true that is no longer the case nor are people thinking “Well, Mary wore one thousands of years ago so I am going to override all of the stereotypes that are perpetuated everywhere today regarding men/women with hijabs/turbans.”

I think it’s ironic that one of the games best black players (Adam Jones) almost beat the crap out of someone for celebrating a homerun last night.

“Chris Rock is a baseball fan.”