As soon as you mention duck fat & Worcestershire, it’s most definitely *not* classic anymore.

Where I grew up, for whatever reason, your “lettuce/ tomato/ pickle/ onion/ cheese & mayo/ mustard/ ketchup” is almost always listed as a “California Burger,” and it’s as classic as either a plain hamburger or a plain cheeseburger.

Strangely enough, a couple bars around here primarily end up with women as their bartenders & servers (usually no men apply, dudestend to apply more for kitchen staff at both places), and at both bars, it’s pretty similar.

Para, working her way toward being a teacher here, and SAME!

Hell, at my current place of employment in a public-school, 90%+ of the STAFF wear workout gear/athletic-brand yoga pants every day😉😂

Long enough that I’d bet the school nurse is grateful that she’s just grabbing the keys as soon as she's called, getting to the school, and taking the sick kiddo home ASAP.

“If there’s something about a specific form of clothing that makes it unsuitable for wearing in public (too revealing/sheer, maybe) I can see a reason to restrict wearing it.”

And variations of it are heartbreakingly common💖

“but I’m not going to pretend that rollin’ up to your kids school to interface with teachers and staff in PJs and a hair bonnet is A-OK either.”

It varies, plenty of folks like “is,” and others like “has.”

This!!

This!

Someone else with the legal chops to do it, who I would also LOVE to see on the SCOTUS someday is Michelle Obama.😍(And Barack, too, fwiw!😉)

That’s what Paul Wellstone’s “We all do better, when we ALL do better.” was exactly about.

“and saw that the party of (so-called) “personal responsibility” didn’t give a shit about actual responsibility whatsoever”

I can assure you from personal witnessing, that many poor whites in the North do this too.😕

And don’t forget that newest TX gem, “Let’s make it legal to kill women who have abortions!”

It could be argued that Mariah would’ve done considerably less damage to the US’s reputation & standing in the world than has happened under trump.

Being in the extended-alphabet myself, I LONG held an opinion extremely similar to yours!😉 It wasn’t until I had a co-worker** who got them that I really understood well.

The schadenfreude is strong with this one, isn’t it?