Well I know one difference is that some men can't even get it up without an emotional connection or some other abstraction. Meaning they might want to and might even have a partner but still can't do it.

I love this show! So glad to hear others are watching it, too. I always have to watch when no one else is home because they all think it's too gross. Can't wait to Friday's episode!

They feel they need to have that worldview or else it might mean that they would have to do something besides complain. Because you know it's so much easier to change the way an entire society functions rather than press your clothes and actually talk to real women once in a while.

That's because the only women they acknowledge exist are conventionally attractive ones they and many other guys want to bang. A woman being shy or socially awkward or unattractive isn't really a woman at all and therefore, doesn't exist in their eyes. Only guys are down-to-earth underdogs that you can feel sorry for…

It is so so so pretty and I am really enjoying it. I haven't seen Friday's because I'm in Europe and my boyfriend thinks it's too gross, but it's my favorite new fall show so far.

you're letting your goat bias show. You're a "goatist" (like a fattist or an ageist)

1. His protruding tongue seems to interfere with voice production 2. He doesn't seem happy 3. I love all animals, but found this somewhat unnerving. 1/10, Would Not Squee.

Of course, one of the narratives that I've been fighting forever is the idea that women can get sex whenever they want while men have to work their fingers to the bone for it. In my readings most of the people that I read about were male, but that doesn't erase the fact that many women find it hard to get physical…

As a woman who was an "involuntary celibate" for a long time, trust me—it's not any better for women and it's a perspective even less seen and discussed.

What do you mean, "wing"?

So basically, women have more realistic expectations, thus their expectations are more frequently realized.

"men's heterosexual activity likely is constrained by female choice."

Can't she just dump ice water on the guy with ALS or something. I read about that a few weeks ago on the internet.

Um, the second letter writer's guy is a piece of shit. Caring for someone with ALS is spectacularly and singularly difficult, physically and emotionally. Never waste another minute of your life interacting with that man, and do look into a visiting nurse. You need time for yourself, whether it feels like it or not.

That shit sounds like a Katherine Heigl movie that has either happened or will happen.

It's surprising how many of life's problems can be solved by saying, "fuck it, let's order pizza."

So did everyone have to wear hats? Did you get hats as parting gifts? Did they register at a haberdashery? Was this the wedding of the Cat in the Hat?

My uterus hurts from that story. This won't win the prize but I'm sharing anyway.

My bf and I went to his cousin's wedding about a year ago. The church ceremony went well and was beautiful. When we got to the dinner the drama started when the catering chef and florist decided to reignite their blood feud right then and there. Punches were thrown and chicken mole went flying everywhere. The cops…

This wedding was lovely, but I was a train wreck at it. Pissed off that the guy I was kind-of seeing had flaked out of being my date at the last minute, I was determined to find a wedding hookup. The night of the rehearsal dinner I got TRASHED and spent most of the night talking to this guy who was nice and pretty…